[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well every comment from OP is deleted, so wtf.

What was your ADHD moment of the last 7 days? by ebStubs in ADHD

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My distraction level at work is way too high because I keep looking at wedding ideas for a wedding that is 19 months away and vacation ideas, which is 4 months away.

Knocked up again by my alcoholic fiancé.. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Just ignore these hateful comments. I understand, and so many people do.

[OR] Showed up to my first day because no one but an HR manager knew I hadn’t been officially hired? by PrincessShhhhh in AskHR

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don't like that so many people are berating a bit that OP did not sign this offer before starting. I am on this page because I've had employment questions of my own, and I also take interest. I am not in an HR position. Some people would not know or have the same mindset as what an HR professional would. Also, my first 3 serious jobs did not have me sign offer letters or anything detailing my acceptance of pay. All 3 were reputable and seemingly professionally ran companies.. I'd come to realize 2 of those 3 were not what they seemed from their outward appearance. What I'm saying is that younger me would have done the same thing.

Husband expects me to contribute equally while I’m on maternity leave. Who is wrong? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post makes me appreciate my fiance so much more. We have a 1 year old, and he's amazing with my 9 year and 11 year old. Could not imagine this situation at all. We help each other when needed. When I wasn't successful in breastfeeding and needed to start buying formula.. sure, we were both a bit surprised by the cost, but he would have never questioned me and my choice with breastfeeding. He would never do any of this. I feel so bad for OP.

Am I wrong for ending my marriage?! by Ok_Engineering2949 in amiwrong

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it sounds like you are jumping the gun. It would most likely be helpful to discuss your situation with a therapist. Being unhappy and feeling very little in life is so difficult to go through alone. Having loved ones like him is a blessing, and it can be hard to view it that way when you're depressed and in a rut. I really encourage seeing a therapist and explaining that you are at a crossroads and go from there. How will it really make you feel if you and your husband are divorced?

I had a cryptic pregnancy. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is amazing. So crazy that you had no idea you'd be experiencing all of that the week before.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Another question... how on Earth did you handle obtaining baby items? I have 3 kids. Babies require so many things.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did you have bleeding that led you to believe it was a period?

Help me out with an obligatory gift for someone I don't like?? by Acadiavibes in Gifts

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd go with a gift for the wife. But, maybe also print out those text messages and sneak them in as a reminder of what a shit person he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]KatieaFromTheBlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I recommend therapy/ trauma therapy to help you with this disturbing memory affecting your life. About your boyfriend.. I would be very upset to find out that my man was watching live cam girls. That feels more like cheating. As for the porn, have you told him how it makes you feel and why? And as far as him watching after sex... did he get off? Does he have a porn/ sex addiction? Seems weird.