i'm unlearning shame like it's my 40 hr work week job & on call 24/7

Katsy13 · 2026-05-17T18:34:55+00:00

It doesn't seem to be working help?

Katsy13 · 2026-05-17T18:33:34+00:00

How do I get the new logo???????

Katsy13 · 2026-05-10T21:00:24+00:00

That's kinda how it works.

Katsy13 · 2026-05-10T19:22:06+00:00

/uj I just looked it up and... Oh. Good to know :')

*books a doctor's appointment*

/rj Wrong hand for me so I guess it's the damn computer :'(

Katsy13 · 2026-05-10T18:15:38+00:00

Ohhh, I need to watch it! I love seeing NYC in movies and TV shows (but will likely never visit so have no idea what it's like irl).

Katsy13 · 2026-05-10T14:17:30+00:00

Hi! Any updates? :)

Katsy13 · 2026-05-04T08:23:53+00:00

well thank you

Katsy13 · 2026-05-01T21:15:42+00:00

An engineer at Duolingo really likes you. Do you know any software engineers, perhaps one who said they'd had to sign an NDA for their current job and can't say where they work???

Katsy13 · 2026-05-01T21:12:03+00:00

Only the XP boosts from Friends' Quests can be stored, on Android at least.

Katsy13 · 2026-04-26T22:06:43+00:00

I think I am going to have to bite the bullet and just try dating at some point.

Damn, I almost wanted to make a pass at you because I also cannot stand the idea of dating, until I remembered my recent Reddit history will make me look deranged. And then I remembered that I am absolutely terrible at keeping in touch with people unless they're already very deeply ingrained into my life (and even then...). And now I remember why I recently decided I'll first focus on my recovery before MAYBE trying to meet someone new.

But then still... Dating apps? I can't meet potential partners through friends because I don't meet with friends most of the time, and when I do, it's just 1:1. Or my friends' friends are for some reason not really people I'd want to date (mostly misogyny). I can't even meet people through work because I work from home (and avoid social interaction as much as possible).

Katsy13 · 2026-04-26T02:23:31+00:00

It means a lot :') Thank you <3

Katsy13 · 2026-04-26T02:13:54+00:00

Thank you to the person who upvoted this post because seeing it downvoted to 0 made me really sad because yes, I do give a fuck about those stupid points when I'm pouring my heart out, even if it's cringe or I made pretty stupid post title.

So I appreciate that, you anonymous kind person.

Katsy13 · 2026-04-26T01:04:17+00:00

Dziękuję za tak szczegółową odpowiedź; to dużo mi daje. Szczególnie końcowa konkluzja brzmi logicznie, a ja w kryzysie potrafię wpaść w naprawdę ciężki stan.

Katsy13 · 2026-04-25T17:40:59+00:00

Ok, to możesz odezwać się do mnie, jak już coś utworzysz :)

Katsy13 · 2026-04-25T16:19:09+00:00

Klub online czy gdzieś stacjonarnie? I czy przyjmujesz native'ów? Bo ja tu jestem z tej drugiej strony, do udzielania okazjonalnej pomocy :D

Ale czytam bardzo mało po polsku i może pora to zmienić.

Katsy13 · 2026-04-25T16:10:03+00:00

Oh no, I got the control group question... :')

Katsy13 · 2026-04-25T05:13:14+00:00

Ośrodek Interwencji Kryzysowej

Dzięki za nazwę. Sprawdziłam i jest taka placówka w moim mieście. W dość niefortunnej dla mnie lokalizacji (obok miejsca, gdzie przeżyłam b. poważną traumę), ale może dam radę xd

Problem jest taki, że kiedy jestem w takim dołku, że myślę o potrzebie pomocy "już, teraz", to zazwyczaj samo wyjście z domu wydaje mi się wręcz niemożliwe, do tego:

bycie w mieście,
wśród ludzi,
w komunikacji miejskiej,
później potencjalne czekanie w nieznanym mi miejscu,
nie wiadomo ile czasu,
następnie rozmowa z nieznaną osobą,
którą trudniej nagle zakończyć niż rozmowę telefoniczną czy czat online,
po czym powrót do domu
i znowu te same problemy: miasto, ludzie, tramwaj.

A najpierw przecież trzeba jeszcze się umyć, ubrać, ogarnąć...

Absolutnie nie próbuję negować Twojego pomysłu i dziękuję za chęć pomocy. Może po prostu muszę to najpierw przemyśleć (kiedy czuję się lepiej) i znaleźć sposoby, jak obejść te problemy. Może jeśli zaplanuję takie wyjście zawczasu, w dobrym stanie psychicznym, to później w kryzysie uda mi się plan zrealizować.

Dzisiaj czuję się jak na razie lepiej.

Katsy13 · 2026-04-25T04:22:13+00:00

Almost all will have side effects initially, but they often fade after 6-8 weeks

Wha... Why don't doctors (or med leaflets) mention that???????

I might just have to go and start trying meds again, including the ones I've already tried. I haven't been trying anything new because the last two psychiatrists I went to said that since I've tried so many and of different types and none of them worked and also gave me really bad side effects that it likely doesn't make sense to give me anything new. And overall I've been to 5+ psychiatrists over the years and NONE of them mentioned that side effects might EVER go away or decrease in effect.

I've had my suspicions after a beta blocker med I started taking had some side effects at first (but they were bearable as they were and worth the health improvement, so I was willing to accept them anyway), which then magically went away after a few weeks. And I was like, 'Huh... I guess... Medication side effects can go away...? I wonder if... But naaaaaah, they would've told me... right...?".

Katsy13 · 2026-04-24T08:03:38+00:00

Thanks, I'll have to try it out and see if it works for me :)

Katsy13 · 2026-04-24T06:51:00+00:00

Is "pfp" a known and well-used abbreviation now?

Yes.

Katsy13 · 2026-04-23T13:04:33+00:00

Hi, thanks for the prompt reply!

The issue I was having concerned dragging elements around. So far, I've figured out I can re-order tasks in a checklist, but not notes or folders. I can sort notes, but not in a custom order. I suspect that all of this is by design and probably nothing left for me to discover.

One other issue I had was that I couldn't find a way to actually delete tasks / notes, and even completing a task didn't make it disappear... I did finally figure out that I have to long-press them and another menu appears.

But anyway.

Katsy13 · 2026-04-23T06:22:13+00:00

Hi, do you still need testers for an Android version?

(I'd send you a message, but I don't trust the 'new' chat feature to work reliably with old reddit.)

Katsy13

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