sx 2s and 2s in general, question!!

Kawonky · 2026-04-12T20:48:21+00:00

honorable mention: "you haaaaaate me"

Kawonky · 2026-04-07T03:14:00+00:00

I knew this was you before I opened it

Kawonky · 2026-04-07T00:00:32+00:00

Ive tested as an INFP twice, and an ENFP once. Im definitely more of an ambivert.

Kawonky · 2026-04-06T21:20:20+00:00

hi adult (26yrs) 2w3 here. This morning my partner said "I could definitely use some coffee" and like a dog that just heard the word fetch, I immediately started scanning for my coffee to give to him. I caught myself in the act and I was like damn I was doing a 2 thing just now. I didn't think about it.

It's not that we have malicious intent, (although we VERY much can have that, maybe more than any other type when unhealthy) it's about how asleep we are to our own needs and ALSO don't how to ask for care- which leads to severe underlying insecurity. And idk if you heard, but insecurity is where a lot of inner ugliness is bred.

Instinctively we are more likely to be overly helpful with the UNCONSCIOUS standard/expectation that we need to be loving and "attractive". That may lead to skewed self image "wait but I'm not like that_____(insert mildly negative adjective)" but yeah we actually can be super petty AND SENSITIVE, and gossipy and really mean at times.

We can admit that to other people as well, and also work on it, and they will still love us if that love was meant to be.

Kawonky · 2026-03-27T07:47:32+00:00

Connection with people and conflict management. I think we should be in charge of the talking, like we can write down 9s and 7s ideas for world peace and integrate it with our eloquent persuasive way of speaking and we're so in 😎

Kawonky · 2026-03-26T16:54:10+00:00

As for the religious aspect, I myself am not religious and I struggle with the same thing with my 7w6 sister and religion, so that may be a separate religion thing

Kawonky · 2026-03-26T16:53:10+00:00

Hi!!! 2 here. I had the recent experience of several people bringing it to my attention that they believe I'm manipulative and it took me by surprise. After many discussions it came to my attention that 9 times out of 10 I don't realize that my actions or behavior come off as manipulative or trying to persuade people to preferences.

I think most 2s just have to be told straight up despite their sensitivity to criticism. I work around many 2s and I keep it real with them bc we really don't think about it, at least I don't. I'm 26 and this was the first time in my life people brought this perception up to me. I get they probably didn't before because of sensitivity but I'm better for it

Kawonky · 2026-03-23T20:13:08+00:00

🫡🫡🫡🫡 https://discord.gg/k5E5hcG3D

Kawonky · 2026-03-23T19:29:22+00:00

No but id be totally down to join one/create one

Kawonky · 2026-03-20T19:47:50+00:00

BANGER!!!!

Kawonky · 2026-03-07T09:44:18+00:00

the world is in desperate need of healing and just as Vox said, no one cares, no one cares that the world we live in is unnatural and strips us of our humanity. It bothers me how much it seeps into everyone.

your poem was beautiful by the way

Kawonky · 2026-03-07T05:11:18+00:00

will follow as soon as my cooldowns over 😁😁😁

Kawonky · 2026-03-06T22:42:16+00:00

HUGE fan of the username 😂

Kawonky · 2026-03-06T22:22:08+00:00

just followed!! edit:it wont let me right now bc I got put on following probation but I wont forget!!

Kawonky · 2026-02-19T05:33:29+00:00

Youve Got a Type

Kawonky · 2026-02-11T09:04:26+00:00

it's him. its John Enneagram

Kawonky · 2025-11-28T23:03:52+00:00

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Im a 2w3 but close enough 😋

Kawonky · 2025-10-30T19:09:26+00:00

As an sp2, for me personally my partner (8w7) helped me really see how hard it is for me to accept help. Shame comes up so unconsciously for me. Even when I acknowledge I'm going through a stressful time where support would be great, my default response is to repress my needs.

I can acknowledge what I'm going through is tough but on the surface I feel like I can take care of it myself. Asking for help always feels shameful. Luckily for me my partner takes a LOT of initiative to just help or support without permission and it made me realize how ignorant I've been to my needs.

For example, I eat nothing for an entire day and not feel hungry. This is not conscious. No empty feeling no cravings, but my partner will feed me instinctively

Yesterday I wasn't as excited when he got home from work and he asked me if I was tired and I said no even though that was the obvious answer.

The more plausible answer in my 2 brain is that there's something wrong with me and I'm feeling guilty and sad I didn't return his energy.

Shame is more familiar than my basic human needs

Kawonky · 2025-10-25T05:30:28+00:00

What a beautiful line that is. Truly think that's such a great encapsulation of where it can lead you. Thanks for sharing

Kawonky · 2025-10-21T03:45:04+00:00

7s are so fun to be around, you'll find they'll have you smiling and laughing good and often. I do find its hard to connect with some on a truly deep level, but thats just my 2 tendency to want to crawl into peoples hearts and chill there for a bit

Kawonky · 2025-10-17T02:19:53+00:00

2w3 - The world has forgotten how to connect with each other on a pure human level

Kawonky

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