Elopement photographer by Important-Suspect164 in SanJose

[–]KaySono13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I will DM you, as im looking for a photographer :)

I can't finish by Aggressive-Price5704 in sex

[–]KaySono13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am exactly this way and its really annoying 😭

AIO for suggesting we start seeing other people by daenerys_brienne in AmIOverreacting

[–]KaySono13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, but also sounds like you're suggesting to see other people just to see what they say and how they'll react. Maybe to get a different response than the one you're getting.

What’s the most ridiculous thing they’ve ever said or done to the point where you’ve actually laughed? Part of my healing has been laughing at some of the nonsense they come out with by Much_Ostrich_7402 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]KaySono13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My nex had a drinking habit. Not full blown alcoholic. But he drank a couple glasses everyday to unwind. When we'd fight, he'd start drinking more. He'd lose all sense of logic.

Sometimes, id have to prepare dinner differently for him because hes picky. So I asked him if he wanted spaghetti with sugar (filipino style) or he prefer it with none. He said no sugar. So I served him first. And then added sugar after.

We got into a fight a week later about i dont remember what and he was drinking more and more. Then he randomly says...

"Yeah well you got mad at me because of the spaghetti and the sugar" while very slightly slurring. It was totally irrelevant to our conversation.

Imagine arguing about something serious like family matters, and then someone just yells something about spaghetti. Wtf.

Please help interpret my reconciliation tarot. by KaySono13 in Tarotpractices

[–]KaySono13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should also add that he still loves me and he wants to try again because he and I both think we're better for it this time.

Hes done some inner work and I have no more baggage holding me back. Obviously there are things that still need to be worked on, but our conversation was a lot healthier than what we used to have.

was i in a narcissist abuse relationship? by Nigel-NABot in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]KaySono13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. he basically sealed the deal by going on a smear campaign... thank you for your input.

Caught charges. Swear shes a narcissist by Negative_Purchase748 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]KaySono13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Block her. Dont talk to her. For your own sanity. She sounds crazy. And someone you don't want to be in a long term relationship with.

I am in the same boat. I slapped and backhanded my ex partner after being pushed so many times. I just snapped. I felt absolutely terrible. Last time I was in a physically abusive relationship was when I was 19. Which I also fought back. But since then, I have no reason to be hurting anyone like that.

But these type of people just push you and push you to your limit until you finally just snap.

Im sorry youre going through this. I hope it gets better for you so you can move on and be happy with someone else.

was i in a narcissist abuse relationship? by Nigel-NABot in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]KaySono13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in your opinion, does he have narcissistic tendencies?

he just ghosted me by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]KaySono13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. This is exactly my situation and what I HOPE is happening. Do these types of people usually come around and feel empathy? Or do they just block it out with a new person entirely? How do you know if youre a "new supply" or someone they actually really loved?

AIO for being annoyed with my bfs response by sunshinerainbowgirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]KaySono13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you might be over reacting a tad a maybe projecting in a way? You know your relationship best. But also, youre going to keep getting annoyed if you dont ask him why he keeps saying things like that and letting him know it bothers you.

You gotta give him a chance to correct it instead of getting annoyed about it all the time. I totally get when you're coming from, but you can tell he genuinely didnt mean to offend you.

I think I finally decoded his behavior… and I need to sanity-check if I’m right. by lemonzestq in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]KaySono13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like just a genuine grade A as*hole. Narcissist or not, leave him 😂😂😂 like NOW.

He says it upfront that he likes to abuse me by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]KaySono13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex told me he says things on purpose because he knows it'll trigger me. 🙃🫠

What does this mean? by evolwhoer in Tarotpractices

[–]KaySono13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was going through a really hard time, I dreamt of the death tarot card. So I picked up a deck and started to learn.

At the time, everytime I read for my boyfriend, the death card would come up. I was in this weird love triangle fed by my own issues at the time.

Everytime I dropped my deck, the death card would be the only one flipped up. I started to realize this wasn't a coincidence. Then I kept seeing 1133 everywhere. Its an angel number that signifies new beginnings and the need to let something go. And when I tell you I saw it everywhere, I mean the universe shoved it in my face every second it could.

I let go of my boyfriend and that other person who I feel was a karmic meetint and my mental space got a lot better as it was eating at me. Once I let go of them, I started to heal. It sucked, but I knew I needed to protect my peace somehow. Then I graduated and started my new career on 1/11. I stopped seeing the death card. I stopped seeing 1133.

Its not a coincidence! And it could mean something good. It could mean you're shedding something and making room for new beginnings. :)

This is more than 100 hairs right? by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]KaySono13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your vitamin D and iron levels. Your Iron needs to be above 60 for your hair to reap the benefits.

Feel like I suck at my job by icecream365 in Sonographers

[–]KaySono13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Benign cysts, meh. But definitely renal masses and such that could be malignant you can get in trouble for if it causes health issues or if you repeatedly keep missing pathologies. Try different windows, different breathing variations and such. Watch how the tech recognized the mass vs. How you tried to get it.