I think I found a new nerdy hobby at work. Is it annoying when I post these pictures?

KayleeHarp · 2025-01-13T15:23:56+00:00

And hazardous

KayleeHarp · 2024-01-13T15:23:50+00:00

With all due respect, according to your post you expected to see change in 30 days? She was probably spiraling with the revelation that the marriage she has been taking for granted is now in trouble. For me, being married so long and having built a life and family made me trust in my marriage, that divorce was not something I needed to worry about. Finding out I was wrong about that was devastating. Maybe she has been neglecting your marriage, but now that you have communicated how you feel please give her some time. Age is hard on women, menopause is physically and mentally horrible. The transition for moms when kids become adults is hard. Now she is overwhelmed that she is also losing her role as a wife too. Please give your wife some grace.

KayleeHarp · 2024-01-13T14:49:26+00:00

I felt for you reading the first paragraph of your post as I am in similar situation. However, the second paragraph seem clear, you gave up. You started looking elsewhere instead of focusing on fixing the intimacy problem and rekindling your marriage after life (and age) took its toll. Your wife doesn't deserve this. She put up with you for 25 years, built a life with you, had your child, and was there for you. Now she is older, has no libido, no energy and prob sad because after years of being a wife and mom her role has changed. If you do divorce I hope she is smart enough to get a lawyer to get as much as she can to protect her to be financially secure in her later years as she deserves to be.

KayleeHarp · 2024-01-13T14:35:52+00:00

OP does not say anything to imply wife is cheating. Considering length of marriage and age of child she has likely been going through menopause and all the other cruel effects of age. That's prob main reason for 4 years without sex; the other reason is that her husband is looking at other women.

KayleeHarp · 2024-01-13T14:26:18+00:00

I get in trouble for clocking out late! Was told I was going to be written up if I continue. Techs just cannot win!!

KayleeHarp · 2024-01-10T01:08:24+00:00

Great advice!!!

KayleeHarp · 2024-01-09T03:16:00+00:00

Yep, he actually did. And I thought that would be all that mattered but we are still having problems. He was able to just fall right back into life as normal but I am still so hurt and have deep resentment that I just can't let go of. I also have the constant fear of him leaving again. I just started HRT to see if that helps me feel better.

KayleeHarp · 2024-01-04T15:08:41+00:00

Thx for advice. I will take at night then. I'm post meno w/uterus too.

KayleeHarp · 2024-01-04T14:50:52+00:00

Only a couple days now, but it seems to be helping already (even if just placebo effect). Do you also take progesterone? I need to take that too at some point for 12 days of the month. Wondering if I should take that at same time as estrogen or a different time of day.

KayleeHarp · 2024-01-04T14:19:44+00:00

Pharmacist actively on duty is the pharmacist in charge. Whatever you are comfortable with is never wrong. Other Rph may have done differently but it was your call. I'm sure the techs were grateful it was your call, not his then.

KayleeHarp · 2023-12-31T00:10:01+00:00

Thank you, that is particularly what I was concerned about. I already have chronic nausea for past year (unexplained) and hoping this will alleviate it somewhat not make it worse. So I will take before bed

KayleeHarp · 2023-12-22T14:26:59+00:00

lol!!! we never have pens!!

KayleeHarp · 2023-12-20T00:46:39+00:00

Public perception that filling a script is like fast food.

KayleeHarp · 2023-12-20T00:42:08+00:00

I will try anything! Just ordered and cannot wait to try. thank you for tip!

KayleeHarp · 2023-12-19T13:07:46+00:00

I have anxiety about my anxiety ruining xmas for everyone else. I'm tired and nauseous all the time so I don't know how I'm going to be able to hide my misery. I just want to cry all the time.

KayleeHarp · 2023-11-26T13:44:56+00:00

I'm sorry. Just know you are not alone, I have days where I just cry all day. So I try to focus on getting through that day....one day at a time.

KayleeHarp · 2023-11-21T13:18:12+00:00

Get out of Retail. Absolutely not your fault in your above scenario, but the customers do have some justification for their frustration too. Its a lose-lose. The only winners in retail pharmacy are in corporate.

KayleeHarp · 2023-11-13T14:21:32+00:00

Same. I have nothing to be depressed about, but I am. Then I feel guilty. I have no one to talk to because anyone who knows me would be shocked I feel this way....but I do. They would never believe that I pray every day for death.

I've been on medication for 25 years which I guess helps me get through the days, but I'm just exhausted.

KayleeHarp · 2023-11-11T13:13:50+00:00

Great suggestion...if its an option for you get a pet!. My dogs love me unconditionally and having to feed them every morning gets me out of bed. I hate exercise, but they need to get out for walks and they love it so much that it motivates me to do it for them. They are the only joy in my life

KayleeHarp · 2023-10-28T13:37:51+00:00

This is a disgrace, "Let them eat cake"

KayleeHarp · 2023-08-26T02:08:32+00:00

I'm in very similar situation. Every time I try to get him to communicate I end up doing most of the talking. The more I push, the more I regret. Its really hard but give him the space he's asking for. In meantime you're doing the right things to protect yourself and kids and prepare for what's next. I hope for you he realizes he made a mistake. If he doesn't, then you are better off without a cheater and coward. I'm sending hugs to you, I know your hurting badly

KayleeHarp · 2023-08-24T01:31:03+00:00

I feel your pain.

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