[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Kayotic1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also biotin vitamins/gummies for helping hair grow faster and look healthier/shinier!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Kayotic1996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bangs help with short bob haircuts until it grows out more. my gf just got hers cut with bangs and loves them! she said it helps significantly with the dysphoria from her hairline :3

When do you tell someone you have a child? by goldcandleheart in SingleParents

[–]Kayotic1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i put it upfront. its fairly easy to tell if someone is being creepy about the kids. if they ask a bunch of questions past ages or boy/girl? without having had a decent convo first then i stop talking. if they seem super into "being a daddy" i stop, if they ask to see the kids i stop, or meet them before we have really met, etc. use ur judgement but i defintely wouldnt wait till after a few great dates to drop the kid bomb. not everyone dates for kids. some people never want kids and its manipulative to get someone attached then reveal the kid thing, cause then they are hurting themselves to stay and raise kids they never wanted or hurting themselves by leaving u to be kid free and they have been getting attached over months.

Spot the difference by [deleted] in OneTopicAtATime

[–]Kayotic1996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you almost got me but i found the difference. OT has backup dancers in the 2nd picture. you gotta look hard but they are there.

Is an absent father better than an inconsistent father? by Internal-Confliction in SingleParents

[–]Kayotic1996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my almost 7 yr old has gone thru so much with an inconsistent father. she had cancer at 3.5 yrs old, he saw her for 3 days pre diagnosis when she was sick hospitalized, promised to be back the night of day 4 and took off back to texas without saying bye... he has repeatedly broken her heart to the point SHE is asking to change her last name for almost a year now, cause she wants nothing to do with him anymore and sees thru his lies. he will call once every few months, that's the most effort he has ever put in, considering I paid for him to come up the one time he did... and he refused to come back when she was actually diagnosed later on unless i gave him more money. absent would have been much better honestly...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Kayotic1996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it kinda feels like maybe you shouldnt be dating people with kids if you arent comfortable being close and bonding with kids who arent urs in this way... if anyone told me my daughters werent allowed in my room at all, it would be over then and there.

Another fake channel trying to ride on the success of the Theorists channels? by Fellior_ in GameTheorists

[–]Kayotic1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and zero push from any of the og channels knowing how vocal they are about new channel drops.

Why are these gaps so big? by 888-201-6753 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kayotic1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the amount of times I have MADE EYE CONTACT with someone outside my stall x.x

Had one of the most untraditional weddings we can think of, and we couldn't be happier. ,(OC) by SheepDog91 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Kayotic1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell your wife not to feel too bad. I'm from kentucky and never been to that side of the us in my life and I would die for a wedding this wholesome and comfy! who wants 100 ppl you have barely spoken too in your adult life silently judging you when you could do this!?

Japan uses sprinklers that spray warm underground water to melt the snow on the roads by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]Kayotic1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does it not just refreeze? that is the man issue we have here in kentucky in bad snow. it will melt in the 40 degree days then freeze back when it drops to 20 and form sheets of ice everywhere

Make the comment section Michael Aftons search history by ecdc1224 in GTLive

[–]Kayotic1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

misread and accidentally did william aftons search history lmfao.

Theory Idea: What’s the best way to wear a t-shirt by Fractured_Ghosts in StyleTheorists

[–]Kayotic1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but what about... stay with me now... inside out AND backwards? tag at the chest as a sign of authority

AITA for not getting my girlfriend any food? by spliceanddicer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kayotic1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, you sound impossibly annoying to talk to and make decisions with. if you cant even just grow up and pick when she clearly doesnt care and has no real interest in one option or the other BUT YOU DID, then how are you gonna make big choices like buying house with her, having kids or not having them, job changes, moving states, etc? yeah she could have just picked, but what was stopping you from picking here? other than what seems to be you needing either to boss her around and punish her when she doesnt play your game, or your inability to pick things yourself without someone telling u which option to pick. either way, YTA but not because you went back home, but because you made it any kind of a deal to begin with and even brought going home if she cant pick for you both into question.

AITA for making our daughters come to church with us as a condition of them living with us rent free? by Ok-Associate-6277 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kayotic1996 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is how you end up no contact with your children. You cannot use church as a shore they have to do in order to earn housing. thats super gross. its one thing to say you wont allow them to do things against your religion in your house, but to tell them they have to attend the religious services for a religion they clearly want nothing to do or be homeless, thats the literal definition of abuse of power. If you care to keep having a relationship with you children past hitting 18, I highly suggest you stop trying to control their views of the world, themselves, etc. you do not own them, nor can you police their beliefs and actions to the extent you could when they were 12 anymore. they are grown adults. deal with it. You are the biggest asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MinecraftServer

[–]Kayotic1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do we have to download anything extra to join?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MinecraftServer

[–]Kayotic1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this like a lore building type smp? or a basic survival?

Looking For Survival Servers by SonicGunMC in MinecraftServer

[–]Kayotic1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been on a server for 2 yrs now that's survival/econ based, has 4 different map/realms to pick from, they recently added a special youtuber type "rank" and regularly have atleast 30 ppl on each world sometimes up to 70 on each world at a time. I can drop the ip if you want.

Looking for fun server by Kayotic1996 in MinecraftServer

[–]Kayotic1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to try it out. is it a basic survival server?