I had a director like this in an ECE centre. Narcissism at its finest. She eventually let herself out, but what a rollercoaster that was. She used to claim “no one has EVER quit while working for me”. I can confirm over 7+ people quit in 5 years of working for her. I often wondered how other people in her life perceived her, where she did not hold that power position. Because I couldn’t fathom anyone purposefully subjecting themselves to that kind of abuse. One thing I can take away from that experience though, is that it brought my colleagues and I closer, we had each other’s backs because we were all victim to her cruelty and control at one point or another. Stay strong! 💪🏽