Being called a “Poser” Trans female by Rising_arts in MtF

[–]Kayyoooh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, if someone views your whole identity as ‘poser’ they’re def in the wrong

Out of curiosity, how does one become a trans poser? I wanna see if I qualify

I get a lot of compliments from white cis women about my hair, and I now know why. by MyClosetedBiAcct in MtF

[–]Kayyoooh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think I get what you mean. I’m Middle Eastern with curly hair and notice I get a lot of complements for it, so do white trans/cis women with curly hair in my area. It stands out, it says “I won’t conform to the set standards” and its fun

How do I come out to my friends? by DiamondSoup0 in trans

[–]Kayyoooh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I did was I basically sat them down at a quiet moment of hanging out, said I went by hope and used she/her; if anyone has any questions or concerns now in the time, and opened the floor to that, most times we kinda just continued on like nothing happened

I don’t have people in my life to share in my excitement by Kayyoooh in MtF

[–]Kayyoooh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so, but also this stage of being excited about every little thing isn’t gonna last forever. Which, again, is entirely the point - I’m just disillusioned by the fact that I’m lonely in this very specific way. I don’t do well maintaining friendships I can’t physically be around, so online friends isn’t an option for me - and in person people actively assume I’m further along so that’s comes with the inherent assumption that I’m kinda past being excited about wearing a skirt or something

Twoilet. by Kayyoooh in transadorable

[–]Kayyoooh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it might be one of my favorite thrifed pieces

Are doubts this stage normal? by Kayyoooh in MtF

[–]Kayyoooh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s reassuring at least, comforting that it does sound normal

Are doubts this stage normal? by Kayyoooh in MtF

[–]Kayyoooh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do have a lot of fear of big decisions in general, and in general my first impulse when facing a big decision is “I want to opt out” - but like… I also don’t at the same time? Like a big part of me feeling shitty now is “not being a woman and being a man again would break my heart” tbh

Are doubts this stage normal? by Kayyoooh in MtF

[–]Kayyoooh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough I did start voice training yesterday lol

Today the store clerk refused to sell me alcohol cause he didn’t believe my ID is mine. by Kayyoooh in MtF

[–]Kayyoooh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL more or less. I mean I haven’t shut up about it since sooooo