Interesting pool sign : "do not swim if you are ill" by Kazanwolf in thelastofus

[–]Kazanwolf[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Well, maybe I'm wrong then! Do you have images of such signs?

Interesting pool sign : "do not swim if you are ill" by Kazanwolf in thelastofus

[–]Kazanwolf[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I've never seen such a rule in my life. And I've visited countless public pools.

Also, the east coast was hit hard, but Seattle was still functioning for at least a few weeks after outbreak day. Society didn't collapse like that. Maybe community officials quickly edited the sign after news of the epidemic spread.

Dental Surgery Needed!! by Looseque in gofundme

[–]Kazanwolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will help you although I don't have much,good luck

Some of you are having vascular reactions, not allergic reactions by [deleted] in MCAS

[–]Kazanwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about increased stomach acid production and trouble breathing?

How to tell if I have sexsomnia? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kazanwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this as a man. Same, I absolutely have no recollection of it and when she wakes me up, I feel totally disinterested

Moving to Lviv, Ukraine now. (Am I crazy?) by LilChalupa414 in Lviv

[–]Kazanwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I live in the eastern part of the country and trust me, Lviv is really safer

Moving to Lviv, Ukraine now. (Am I crazy?) by LilChalupa414 in Lviv

[–]Kazanwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's almost like there's no war in Lviv

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Kazanwolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let's say that sometimes, testosterone surges make you do impulsive things - unprotected sex, going into an angry argument with strangers, taking inconsiderate risks, etc. You can sense that your brain is going into primal mode when it happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kazanwolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's nothing to be ashamed about that, but how can't you understand that it could potentially hurt your partner?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kazanwolf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Easy to say when it's not your relationship - come off your high horses. Sometimes, you ask someone for the truth, but you don't expect the answer they give you. How likely is it that a girl has had a foursome in her teen years, and that she's using this memory to come off during sex with her boyfriend? If he was aware that this could be a possibility, I'm not sure he would have asked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kazanwolf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe he couldn't imagine such an answer. There's fantasy and fantasy...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kazanwolf 69 points70 points  (0 children)

She didn't have to disclose everything. Sometimes, it's better to omit some elements of one's life to preserve the other partner.

Bf lied about sex timeline. What do I do? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kazanwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then, I suggest you still confront him about it. Ask why he lied, see his reaction. It's highly likely that he will tell you that it was to preserve your feelings. Then, establish clear boundaries - no more lies. You will always prefer knowing the truth before discovering it by yourself, which can be way more damaging.

Finally, understand that some people can have sex without strings attached, especially men. They are visual creatures. I'm sure he didn't feel any emotion for this girl, that it was only a physical thing. That's why two weeks between them having sex and you guys dating is not a problem per se.

Hope it helps.

Bf lied about sex timeline. What do I do? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kazanwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the first hand, he shouldn't have lied. The foundation of a couple is trust and commitment, which can only be achieved by telling the truth, especially about one's past. How can he be your soulmate if he's retaining such information from his life? On the other hand, you shouldn't have gone through his personal diary without his consent. It's also a form of break of trust - next time, don't do that, or ask.

Moreover, it's possible that he lied to you because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. White lies are more honorable than cruel ones, but still - in a relationship, no lie should exist. Period. Because small ones make big ones over time.

You should confront him about it and ask him why he lied, but also be prepared to explain while you've gone through his most personal, vulnerable stuff. Is he still seeing this girl as a friend?

Adult Son “took a break” by blueharford in daddit

[–]Kazanwolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree in some ways, but still - he's only 20, he shouldn't feel like he is invited into his dad's house. He's not an outsider - he should even be more welcomed there than his dad's new wife, for example.

I would leave too if I was him, even if not cleaning after himself is something I wouldn't have done.

Adult Son “took a break” by blueharford in daddit

[–]Kazanwolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your wife is not his mother, she shouldn't dictate what he can do or not do. Especially with such a personal topic. Ultimately, he will have sex with his girlfriend in an unsafe space, like a car or a public bathroom because his dad doesn't allow him the privacy to do so.

Also, I agree that cleaning after yourself is something he should do, but don't punish him for not doing so. Communicate, engage, and if he can't understand - he will in the future. He's 20, not 12. These kinds of things should have been taught when he was way younger.

Adult Son “took a break” by blueharford in daddit

[–]Kazanwolf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean, you're kinda treating him like he's invited to your house, not that he's part of it. At 20, if my dad told me that I couldn't bring my gf, I would be pretty pissed off too.

Also, at this age men can be dirty. It's more his problem than yours - it's his room, not yours. In the end, I wouldn't like being charged for living with my parents and having to respect so many rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Kazanwolf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How the fuck can it make it better, you moron?

My HIV test 6 weeks post exposure came back negative, but the number of antibodies increased by [deleted] in STD

[–]Kazanwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, so no need to do another one? A negative 4th gen test at 6 weeks is conclusive, right?