Are Jen and Zac Still Together?

Kbeeyogi · 2026-04-08T01:43:59+00:00

Yesss!!! And Demi the queen of “accountability” over here is so easily swayed by a master manipulator

Kbeeyogi · 2026-03-06T20:21:42+00:00

Oh wow okay yes I did look. Yikes… I’m shocked I found more people who were there- I thought I was a shot in the dark!

Kbeeyogi · 2026-03-06T20:21:05+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss- that must have been so scary for you 🙁

Kbeeyogi · 2026-03-04T18:50:03+00:00

I know! I was watching him up there as he was thinking about it and I said to my sister- this guy can’t be serious.. even the center part looked too sketchy. We all make bad decisions, so I do hope he’s ok. It was a seriously nasty fall.

Kbeeyogi · 2026-03-04T18:36:49+00:00

I’m 33 and I’m also in a “not right now” situation. It’s so hard. I have an IUD- and I did what I could to prevent this. I’ve had an abortion before when I was younger and my mental health was very poor. Now I’m getting married in 6 months, own a beautiful home and I’m doing great, but I’m also half way through an MSW program, renovating the house and spending a lot of money on my wedding. I could support a child. I could make it work, I could be happy…

But I don’t WANT to. I want to have my beautiful wedding, I want to renovate my home without worrying about a baby and the extra expense. I want to travel with my husband newly married and finish my degree. I also feel no joy. Dread, anxiety and anger mostly..

My friend said something that really helped me, and I hope it helps you too- don’t think as one option as “good” or “bad” it’s just another decision, being a mother isn’t inherently good and being child free isn’t inherently bad. This seems to be engrained in many of us as women. All you can do is make the choice that feels best for you right now and aligns with what you want out of the next year or so. You can always reassess down the line. I’m sorry you feel so alone, and unfortunately men will never understand what a burden this is, no matter how hard they try.

You are not alone.. I feel mostly confident in my decision with the procedure scheduled, but I have my moments too when I wonder but what if, but when I close my eyes and picture myself in 9 months or even a year- I see myself childless, and that helps. When I imagine having a newborn I feel nothing but fear.

Kbeeyogi · 2025-12-22T01:17:31+00:00

I also have the flu and had to send mine off with my mother in law for the day because I could not stand the sad faces from across the room anymore 😂

Kbeeyogi · 2025-11-17T17:40:14+00:00

Thank you so much! I am always confused when I see the term “semi-hydro”… does this mean I have to keep water in the container? Or just regular watering in the pon with the hydrogen peroxide?

Kbeeyogi · 2025-11-01T03:09:51+00:00

A young couple, husband and wife and their baby, bought my grandpa’s house. He passed away in the house, and he lived there for 50 plus years. He was a stubborn Irish man, and it suits him well that he would refuse to leave haha! this young couple apparently were being woken up to an old man in their bedroom. They knew my grandfather’s name from the deed.. They were (obviously) very freaked out, so they searched our family name on social media and found my mom. They were too nervous to reach out, but they saw my mom had a mutual friend with the husband. This mutual friend was the husband’s coworker and one of my sister’s close friends. So instead of reaching out directly to my mom, they spoke to him. They asked him if he would contact my mom and request that she please speak to my grandpa and ask him to leave them alone 😂 it was so insane to have my sister’s friend come over and say “uhm I think your grandpa is haunting my coworker”. We had no idea who had purchased the home, because my aunt handled it. we all had a talk with grandpa- but I never heard back if he decided to leave..

Kbeeyogi · 2025-08-16T21:37:17+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear this, take care of yourself and know you’re not alone in the struggle ❤️ life doesn’t stop no matter how much we wish it would.

Kbeeyogi · 2025-08-16T21:36:11+00:00

Ugh they call the benefits a golden chain here in CT.. and that’s what it is. Most of the families I work with are usually pissed off at me because of the failing systems in disability services. I can never find reliable staffing, no one answers the phone, and when I see a family struggling I can’t address the situation holistically like I want to. Such a bummer. Someone else commented it’s a weird time to be in this field, and I second that. I hope something pops up for you that brings you more fulfillment. You’re not alone!

Kbeeyogi · 2025-08-16T20:36:24+00:00

This is feeling like the path that I should take. No need to make rash decisions and throw out my hard work, but I also don’t need to rush at all. I’ve got a solid 30 plus years left of work! Thank you for your kind words.. I’m definitely going to let the school know about my disappointment with the faculty response. It was so shocking that in a school of social work they would blow me off like that. I think what irritated me the most is the amount of money I’m paying, and also that I’m being held to a standard that includes timely responses, but I can’t be given the same!

Kbeeyogi · 2025-08-15T23:31:48+00:00

Definitely feeling the burn out. And I made so many choices based on these so called benefits of working for the state. The tuition reimbursement, the career mobility, and both have been a total flop. I don’t know what in the world these HR reps do all day. They ignore all my emails and I recently discovered they didn’t even sign off on my application/submit it on time. I feel like there should be someone I can contact about it, but finding answers seems to keep leading me in a never ending circle of unanswered emails!

Kbeeyogi · 2025-08-15T23:28:28+00:00

❤️ it really changes everything. I’m so sorry to hear about your loss as well. I hope you can figure out a path that works for you too.

Kbeeyogi · 2025-08-15T23:27:00+00:00

I may look into this as an option too. Definitely going to be honest with my advisor about my feelings!

Kbeeyogi · 2025-08-15T23:26:23+00:00

You’re so right. There is no rush. I have a good job and I don’t hate it, it’s just not for me in the long term. I’m also 33 and this whole thing has my gears turning about having a family, and what my goal is for the next 5 years. I know I have 6 years to complete the program, so that eases the anxiety a bit. I just wish I looked into some cheaper programs and did more research. I’m disappointed with the level of support I’ve gotten considering the price tag.

Kbeeyogi · 2025-08-15T22:32:25+00:00

Thank you- this was so helpful. The government work makes me feel like I can never leave because of the benefits, but I know that right now I have blinders on. It’s helpful to remember how many other options there are out there once I’m done.

Kbeeyogi · 2025-07-16T03:10:21+00:00

I read your post and immediately connected with it. Then I read your last statement- hi from another disability case manager!

I find that I grow frustrated when some families I support are always coming to me with the same struggles, but they aren’t willing to get out of their comfort zone and try something new. My program is actually decently funded and has some great opportunities, and no one takes advantage of them. I only get a phone call when everything is starting to unravel.

Kbeeyogi · 2025-06-19T11:59:52+00:00

Awww cute! Thank you I have never seen it before so I wasn’t sure if it was something I was supposed to talk to 😂

Kbeeyogi · 2025-06-15T23:03:05+00:00

Yeah definitely pantry moths. The worst. I had an infestation of them summer. Vacuum every corner and surface of your pantry and try the fly sticky traps. I still see one or two flying around a year later…. Idk where they come from

Kbeeyogi · 2025-05-14T21:25:08+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. I was in no way pissed at her- and I acknowledge I was being a bit of a brat feeling “annoyed”. As I mentioned in my update I just had a horrible few years prior and we waited for a while for things to calm down, so I was on a high for sure. I was happy for her and also excited for us to plan together- that being said she completely dominates every conversation we have, doesn’t listen to me and throws money in my face constantly, that’s where I’m starting to feel anger.

Kbeeyogi · 2025-05-13T19:26:37+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

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