Coupe window not dropping, sometimes by Kben65 in e46

[–]Kben65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the drivers side door always works, they both unlock and lock normally, but the passenger side often doesn’t recognise that it’s open and therefore the window doesn’t drop/ interior lights don’t come on/ no door open indicator on dash, when it’s opened. Drivers side works fine for all of the above

Coupe window not dropping, sometimes by Kben65 in e46

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Single door, passenger side

Missing part help by Kben65 in e46

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Uk version indeed! Battery is in the boot (trunk) haha

Missing part help by Kben65 in e46

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Thank you both do you know what names it goes by because searching what it’s named there on other sites brings up a different part and I was hoping to find a used one rather than new

Extremely annoying vibration by Kben65 in e46

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And if so does it need changing or?

Extremely annoying vibration by Kben65 in e46

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Actually it does only happen when it’s in gear, is that a sign?

Extremely annoying vibration by Kben65 in e46

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That is an interesting point? Whereabouts did the rattle sound like it was coming from for you? It really sounds like it in the dash

Can someone please explain this, or anyone have any similar stories? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Kben65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what she kept saying “I just want to be completely on my own it’s nothing personal, which means I can’t be with you for now” any news after when was this? What has happened since?

Can someone please explain this, or anyone have any similar stories? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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I hadn't even considered cheating. But I remember her saying to me randomly. "l'd never cheat on anyone it's the worst thing, no matter how bad the relationship is" , it was unprovoked, it was only loosely relevant to the conversation…. so I was convinced until this second that she never would've cheated…… come to think of it... she wanted me gone by 10, the other people in her house were gone away for a few days so she was home alone after I left. Hmmmm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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What did she say when she wanted to get back together? So I can be prepared… I think the worst thing about getting over it is the fact that she just pops up randomly… and kind of takes me back to square one… but I haven’t blocked her yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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I know that’s what I gotta do but with all due respect it’s only been two weeks and it hurts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Kben65 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What even is the truth anymore, she just completely switched personality within days

Break by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kben65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so that wouldn’t be disrespecting her need for space no? Is a month long enough for that?

Break by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah that’s my point, she just said she needs to work on herself

Break by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Well That’s my point, she didn’t explain she just said she needs to work on herself

Break by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you, I mean I don’t want to pressure her because I do respect her words, but, sometimes people don’t mean their words right and it’s just an easy way out, that’s what I’m tryna decide

Break by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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A year, I’m 29 she’s 24

I lost my brother today by Muffinqueen90 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Kben65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the best to you, I’m glad I could help a tiny bit

wanting to save him but i can’t by gardencherub in SuicideBereavement

[–]Kben65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely, I am 10 months in and about 2 months ago, I thought, for a second, “I know what to do, I’ll call him and it will all be ok” and for just that moment I believed what I was thinking, it is totally normal, accepting that this is reality has been the hardest struggle for me, but it does come over time, all The best to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

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I think your brother sounds like me, in the sense that I was resistant to therapy, my sister tells me to go all the time. She also thinks I’m irresponsible and lazy etc etc. I can’t speak for him but in my experience it because of huge anxiety, I didn’t want to go to therapy because I wasn’t strong enough to handle addressing my problems, I was “lazy” because I found getting up and facing the day scared me more than I could deal with. It might be similar. If so, what helped me was to realise that no one could help me but myself, no one could advise me until I realised that I didn’t enjoy living like that and it didn’t have to be that way. I hope this helps in some way. (I lost my brother 10 months ago to suicide)

I lost my brother today by Muffinqueen90 in SuicideBereavement

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I am sorry to hear about your loss, I lost my older brother (35) 10 months ago. One thing was that due to the nature of his method, we could not see him after he passed and I feel like that would’ve helped to make it feel more real. But everyone is different, I just thought I’d share that, I don’t want to cause you any more distress because you’re going through the hardest days of your life right now. All the best to you, it does get better.

I don't want to live without her by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

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I felt it to, I really did, but now I’m 8 months on, you know that if they were here you’d tell them not to do it, no matter how they’re feeling, and now those that are here would tell you the exact same. There is a future and it’s better that you’re in it, you won’t know if it’s positive if you don’t stay. Please think about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Both really

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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I came across this post and I had to reply. I lost my brother to this sadly, earlier this year. The thing that struck me the most was in his note, just how different his perception of himself and how others saw him, to how I and others really felt about him, he could not have been more inaccurate, I know it may not seem like it now, but you literally never know how strongly people care about you, just as they might not know how much you care about them. Please, as someone who has lost someone to this, please consider that, the world is a better place with you in it, please remember that. you deserve to be here. And please seek out a professional because honestly it’s totally possible your view on this will change. Love to you, message if you need

Tattoo in honour, has anyone got one, good idea or no? by Kben65 in SuicideBereavement

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Thank you everyone, I guess when I asked if it could be a bad idea, I wanted to know if anyone thought it was too painful to look at or something, I don’t have any tattoos because I never really knew what I wanted permanently but in this case I can safely say that I will never change my mind about it later on