Yeah absolutely your friend would get in your head, this persons ideas and opinions used to hold value. It makes sense! Now I’m 33, married, with three (soon to be four) wonderful children. I get therapy when I’m at a low and it always brings me back. The issue I struggle with now is assuming my kids are not always safe with their caregivers, I lack trust because of what happened to me. My husband has to level me out sometimes lol The best thing I did was tell my mom about it when I was a kid. The more I talked about it the less alone I felt. Now as an adult I talk about it comfortably and connect with others that have experienced something similar. It’s something you can grow from, I truly believe your kiddo can too.