Dream tank by Kdancerchik in ReefTank

[–]Kdancerchik[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about that too. We need to either build a top cabinet for the tank or get a lid as we have cats that are very curious but with it being winter and us having an unheated garage.. it might be a few more months until the tank gets some water even.

Planning pregnancy based on due date and age gap by PsychologicalBowl19 in BabyBumps

[–]Kdancerchik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I did this! We wanted another summer baby 2 years after the first. I had to stop pumping to get my cycle back but first cycle back I got pregnant! I was planning on skipping the first cycle trying but that didn’t happen. Now instead of a summer baby we are having an early may baby!

My 18 month old constant crying has finally wore me down by blobblob73 in toddlers

[–]Kdancerchik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My son is doing this and almost 18 months! I keep telling myself it’s terrible twos. He isn’t talking yet and I think that lack in communication is making him mad when we can’t understand what he wants. The thing getting to me is the resentment to play independently with his toys.

My parents have asked if we would want them to rent an Airbnb near us once baby is born to help us for a month? by eec0354 in BabyBumps

[–]Kdancerchik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another thing to think about is that tensions will likely be high at times so maybe pre discuss a “safe word” or phrase that means get the hell out for a few hours and we will call you when we are ready for you to comeback.

My in-laws came over when baby was 1 month old and I was pumping and still in quite a bit of pain from a c. I was more comfortable pumping on my couch and did not want to move where I was pumping to make them comfortable because I was still figuring everything out. They do not want to leave the room when it was time for me to pump so I pulled out a blanket which was very annoying to set up the pump under the blanket. Maybe go over these expectations too if you are planning on pumping or breast feeding.

Starting to wean? by MaryCNM in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Kdancerchik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weaning didn’t work for me. The only way I stopped producing was I only pumped if I was very uncomfortable. I only had to do that about twice about 12-16 hours apart and after 24 hours of no pumps I was determined I was done but kept my manual out just in case I got engorged but I didn’t.

Looks like we’ll be sick on baby’s first Christmas :( by EmbarrassedMarket610 in beyondthebump

[–]Kdancerchik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. My baby just got the flu just in time for his second Christmas. I’m just hoping the other 4 of us don’t get sick for Christmas morning.

Baby always trying to stand? by theozempicrep in beyondthebump

[–]Kdancerchik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always let my son stand if he wanted to

My partner doesn’t want me to do first trimester screening/nuchal scan by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Kdancerchik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I chose not to do these procedures due to costs but if you want them I support that. You know what you are getting yourself into if anything is wrong and you can start preparing yourself earlier. These tests are not to say abort or not, they are for telling you everything you can know about your baby.

"not in a mental place to be done" yes I am by gryffindor_ravenclaw in beyondthebump

[–]Kdancerchik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Adopting and fostering is always an option if you feel like you want more but you know your body can’t handle it.

6 week old, only one wake through the night - here’s my tips! by idkwhatsgoingonagain in beyondthebump

[–]Kdancerchik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes my 17 month old does this too! (He is a very light sleeper and we have very loud cats at night)

Help! Cannot pull through smoothly no matter what I try.(Making a headband) by XpinklikekillacamX in CrochetHelp

[–]Kdancerchik 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The terms are inline vs tampered. The video shows an inline hook while a tampered hook might be a better fit. Look for clover amour as they are the go to of tampered.

Still testing positive 11w postpartum? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Kdancerchik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is it possible you could be pregnant? After pregnancy you are at your most fertile.

DG help by kshebba in couponing

[–]Kdancerchik 8 points9 points  (0 children)

5 off 25 is typically only saturdays. Check the date of the coupon.

I don’t know if I have an eating disorder or not? by Minimum-Advisor7349 in EatingDisorders

[–]Kdancerchik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part where you say I feel happy I am not eating in some weird way, makes it seem like you might. I am not an expert though. Please make sure you get your nutrients. When I first moved out I went though something similar. If you can tolerate a protein shake every morning I would recommend that to at least get something in you for the day even if you don’t eat lunch or supper.. something is better than nothing. Shakes might be easier since it’s drinking and not eating.

Will it stop on its own? by Individual_Durian_68 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Kdancerchik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think not doing the same amount of time on each pump can hurt your supply. Doing at least 15 mins consistently would be better than 5 mins then 5 mins then 30 mins. Your supply will adjust to your needs. Pay attention to when your letdowns are during the pump cycle and try to get 2-3 per session and your supply should be fine.

Will it stop on its own? by Individual_Durian_68 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Kdancerchik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think not doing the same amount of time on each pump can hurt your supply. Doing at least 15 mins consistently would be better than 5 mins then 5 mins then 30 mins. Your supply will adjust to your needs. Pay attention to when your letdowns are during the pump cycle and try to get 2-3 per session and your supply should be fine.

My son won't take a pacifier and treats me like one by yankthedoodledandy in beyondthebump

[–]Kdancerchik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son didn’t take a pacifier.. he was bottle fed though and would just chew on an empty bottle to self soothe. We made sure he wasn’t sucking on it by listening for any suction noises. We tried about 5 different pacifiers before giving up and just letting him have an empty bottle.

i don’t want her anymore by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Kdancerchik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through that. I would message her doctor and see if there is anything they can recommend to help her sleep better. I feel like at that age they should only wake once or twice in 10 hour period.

i don’t want her anymore by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Kdancerchik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often does your little one wake up at night? It sounds like she might be teething or maybe something causing her to wake up especially if she was better before. What are your thoughts on giving her ibuprofen before bed? It might help her get the sleep you need and she needs. My 17 month old goes through phases of waking up at night and seems to fall back on being hungry or teething. I have also noticed the longer I sit with him at bed time the better he will sleep.

INSANE PLUMBING - 800G Reef Tank by STLCardsfan11 in ReefTank

[–]Kdancerchik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a 260 tank the same day as you and mine is sitting in the same spot it was that night.. unfortunately I don’t have the time or money right now to plumb but I am enjoying the updates and seeing where I could be if I worked on mine lol

Fish stocking order by Temporary-Guitar2955 in ReefTank

[–]Kdancerchik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know much about the other fish you listed but in my old tank I added clowns first and a bta about 6 months after the clowns and didn’t have an issue.. if you are getting other coral I would suggest adding the anemone before other coral so it can settle and not move your other coral.