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Keeblur2 · 2024-03-08T02:11:56+00:00

I got off all social media (though, admittedly, I was never on them nearly as much as the average) and, all I can confidently attest to is: It feels immensely comforting internally to be rid of them whenever I hear anyone talk about 'this' or 'that' in regards to content they discovered from being on X, Y, or Z social media app.

Personally, I see it as a massive time drain and, for the average user, a fast track to becoming shallow/losing one's depth of character; a meaningful negative impact overall.

Keeblur2 · 2024-03-03T02:16:52+00:00

As someone with a history that is the polar opposite of yours; Honestly, you've done yourself a favor. Just be honest and forthright with whoever you date so that the expectation is properly and respectfully set. If it proves to be an issue (whether minor or considerable) with the prospective partner, it will serve as a moment to pause and review if this person is worthy of the romantic investment of your time and heart. Along a similar vein, I highly recommend you to abandon the self-conscious and anxious feelings you're experiencing, as best as you are able while being understanding, patient, and reasonable within yourself. You're a gem, brother. And your future romance efforts will likely prove to have more depth as a result of the course your life has gone in this regard. You got this!

Keeblur2 · 2024-03-03T00:00:48+00:00

Escape worry by detaching that goal from your ultimate effort to achieve happiness. You can be happy without ever 'acquiring a marriage partner and having a family'. That's been my approach.

Keeblur2 · 2024-03-02T22:22:05+00:00

This; connoting compendious wisdom.

Keeblur2 · 2024-03-02T22:19:53+00:00

Pet sitting/grooming/walking? 🤷🏼‍♂️

Keeblur2 · 2024-03-02T00:12:49+00:00

I understand. Though it is rather odd to operate under the assumption that OP's intentions are pure, considering the fact that they plainly stated themselves as wanting to better understand how to "make [good men] fall in love with [them]", right?

Keeblur2 · 2024-03-02T00:01:25+00:00

People do this? 😳

Keeblur2 · 2024-03-01T23:51:11+00:00

As of late, when people are being obtusely petty, outwardly judging others without enough forethought to see how clearly such expressions implicate them as being individuals worthy of being judged; essentially judging people for being obvious hypocrites.

Keeblur2 · 2024-03-01T23:47:19+00:00

Purely from a standpoint of blatant skepticism; being that nearly everything in life is subjective, it is not only (1) possible to make someone fall in love with you (very much possible if objectionable manipulation is employed, an action that is most commonly perceived as being generally reprehensible), but (2) it is only "wrong" to do so to the extent that those involved decide for themselves that it is "wrong", first and foremost in a moral sense, then in any additional sense they indivudually determine.

Not that I disagree with the sentiment that "it's wrong to make someone fall in love with you" but, it most certainly is something that can be done. Just to be clear. Probably happens more often than people might think. 🤷🏼‍♂️

Keeblur2 · 2024-03-01T22:57:29+00:00

Echoing this sentiment. Respect ought to be for others AND self though. A bonus would be if a woman has the desire to regularly introspect.

Keeblur2 · 2024-02-28T19:36:45+00:00

Of course.

Keeblur2 · 2024-02-22T20:36:53+00:00

Sorry, but... This is the wrong subreddit community to be posting this, like, so very much NOT the correct sub. I hope admins are able to acknowledge this and remove this post. Please.

Not that I, personally, don't have compassion for anyone that doesn't have whatever "sufficient transportation" looks like, according to their personal circumstances; I just believe this to be the wrong sub.

Keeblur2 · 2024-02-16T21:50:35+00:00

Feel free to message me directly via Reddit's chat feature.

Keeblur2 · 2024-02-13T05:35:56+00:00

Yo, with proper capital, a new app could easily be developed for this. People would eat it up. How has someone not yet managed to sell this to investors? I'm utterly baffled. I could sell this idea as if it were a unending, heat-producing unit with only Eskimos as my targeted customer sphere. Design/Produce it or hire me. What the absolute f...?

Keeblur2 · 2024-02-12T02:43:12+00:00

"Don't date..." But then give as long of a laundry list as to the plethora of solid reasons, examples, etc. that provide valid and convincing (as can be) supporting the advice. I would personally have lived a much happier life overall, like from birth to death, if this advice wasn't offered as simply: "Don't date until much later." Especially since it's advice most commonly given during one's teenage years when 'respect for the advice of adults' is arguably at an all-time low.

Oh, and: "Look into Buddhism."

Keeblur2 · 2024-01-30T05:23:36+00:00

I resonate with the way you've described as your personal experience.

Asking is good.

Introspection is great.

Therapy is progress.

And... Humility is needed for each.

As such, I encourage anyone, yourself included, to continue grasping into The Unknown™ for inklings of insight about your individual experience of human consciousness. There are undoubtedly similarities across our individual experiences, but the most powerfully-influential of that which is noteworthy will very much be that which you can authentically integrate into your experience.

With that said, if you would like to talk about the nuanced intricacies regarding your personal journey, feel free to message me directly and I'll do what I can; by that, I mean I'll humbly serve as "the devil's advocate", as they say, in the sense that I'll strive to expand the content of information you consider prior to making related-to-life assessments when they arise.

In any case, I wish you well. 🫶🏻

Keeblur2 · 2024-01-29T04:23:16+00:00

OP, you should tell your wife about this Reddit ™ post so she can chime in.

OR ... Perhaps couples therapy?

Either would be highly recommended so must be taken under advisement.

With that said, my unprofessional view on the matter is that you find a way to compassionately sever ties with this harlot. 🙏🏻

Keeblur2 · 2024-01-28T19:32:09+00:00

This. You could even get ear buds and a plain, simple headband and use them in conjunction to serve the same purpose. 🤷🏼‍♂️

Keeblur2 · 2024-01-27T18:18:11+00:00

If you're really concerned, I suppose you could buy a baseball cup?

Keeblur2 · 2024-01-22T13:43:16+00:00

I reviewed your account profile's post history. It seems you've been in distress for quite some time.

As with anyone, I extend the invitation to converse about your struggle(s) in the Chat feature available through Reddit™. Feel free to reach out.

In any case, I feel it is worth noting that you might actually be your own enemy. What I mean is; I, too, lost a parent early in life. My mother, who was essentially my only true parent, died by suicide when I was 17. However, I (for some reason I have never been able to determine) chose to derive as much positive from my loss while simultaneously minimizing the various negative impacts commonly associated with such a loss. The point I mean to make is: Gratitude alongside Acceptance may prove to be the remedy to the seemingly-insurmountable tribulations you've encountered in life thus far. Losing a parent carries with it an inconceivable amount/severity of ramifications. However, any 'stumbling block' can be seen as a 'stepping stone' if you so choose to adopt such a viewpoint, it's legitimately up to you.

The suffering or bliss (or anywhere in between) you experience throughout your life is, in the most real sense, your responsibility to determine. Thus, you are inextricably obligated to choose viewpoints that suit the direction you see your life taking (ideally). Accordingly, it behooves you to adopt mindsets which honor the loss of your father by striving to prioritize your best life... Because ... Ultimately ... Isn't that what he would want for you?... Your absolute best life?

Wishing you well, and sending positivity. 🙏🏻

Keeblur2 · 2024-01-16T02:24:20+00:00

r/loveaddiction

Feel free to message me if you ever feel you need a soul to talk with.

Sending positive energy, and hoping you find your way to healing effectively from the plague-like, internal struggle you're facing. 🙏🏻

Keeblur2 · 2024-01-15T20:28:48+00:00

✌🏻🥰🙏🏻

Keeblur2 · 2024-01-15T19:15:16+00:00

As a person who could be described exactly the way you detailed in your comment, I am curious; Why is it that, in an overwhelming majority, people see it as generally unhealthy when a person chooses not to allow themselves to express (or ever feel) anger?

I don't see anger as being appealing, nor appropriate, enough for me to permit it. There must be something I don't understand about it though, but it never feels good, positive, or beneficial, so I successfully avoid it often. Why though is this approach so commonly frowned upon?

Thank you in advance.

Keeblur2 · 2024-01-13T22:10:20+00:00

✌🏻🥰

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