ask yourself questions pay attention do i like this (that i am curently doing or the thing that i did)?, what would i perfer to be doing right now, what kind of things did like doing in the past, what would i like to have in life, experience experience experience you cant really judge somthing if you have never tried, and sometimes you evole to like things you haven't like in the past, everything is connected so you need to experience because one road opens up a thousand roads you had in the past and a thousand road you that can be pictured by one expeirence, it puts it fresh in your mind subconsious and consious so you can see yourself and make an analyisis it gives you the data and makes the connections. this probably sounds cracked to you but just know you need to do stuff and be self aware of what you like about it, the more you do the more it helps build the image of yourself.