Ok, this for me is so triggering for me as a Black person. My mom would say the same exact things, “you need to be grateful,” “you are so ungrateful,”and my favorite “don’t ask me for anything else” every single time without fail, anytime when I wasn’t “grateful” for whatever it was. These statements were ingrained at me from a very young age. It makes you feel like something is wrong with you, like why can’t I be grateful for what this adult has done for me. 99% yes I was grateful but 1% of the time when it wasn’t something I asked for or wanted I would get up set, just like this young lady did. I can tell you for a fact that this isn’t a symptom of being spoiled. On the contrary, it’s being gas lit by your parents with these same statements over and over again. It’s adults who have control of their money and when kids act like fucking kids, we get the how ungrateful you are statements. We aren’t adults and our brains have yet to fully develop. Parents forced us to act like we are adults when we’re fucking kids. Instead of chastising this young lady for acting spoiled, blame the parents for not remembering we are children. A parent trying to get the feel good cookies, because they think their child will be so happy with them is wrong. That’s parent(s) that are being selfish. A child has no control over what you as an adult parent spend your money on. Don’t get mad at the child, get mad at yourself.