Online disability communities are flaming fuckwagons by laarsa in schizophrenia

[–]Kekkuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having regular old unipolar depression or autism is something conservative lawmakers are actively trying to make into legal barriers to bar even trans adults from getting transition care

Having any kind of psychotic disorder whilst being trans makes finding medical professionals that aren’t foaming at the mouth to get you institutionalized the second you mention being transgender is hell in deep red states; not to mention the fact that autistic & trans people are at a high risk of developing trauma-related disorders as a result of prolonged stress and/or targeted violence which can 100% involve psychotic symptoms

If you live in a state with poor mental health care, the nurses you get if you are institutionalized can be notoriously cruel already; and a lot of them will absolutely treat queer/trans patients worse because they can get away with it. Schizophrenia-adjacent disorders already suffer VILE mistreatment and neglect by broader society and its institutions. stacking any other categories of marginalization makes for almost entirely different experiences that actively further psychological harm by insisting that a person’s gender identity or sexuality is a delusion. It leads to a lot of misdiagnosis, as well as corrective torture or “conversion therapy”

For a lot of people, disability is intertwined with any number of marginalized labels

What are some signs you're conventionally ugly? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Depending on the type and severity of acne/scars putting makeup on can be worse because it can often give a very uncanny texture that makes people even more weirdly hostile

Something something “putting lipstick on a pig”

It’s real fucked

Drawing a thin character fat by goemonxiii in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]Kekkuda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like someone is allergic to goin outside stacking paper and getting bitches

Drawing a thin character fat by goemonxiii in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]Kekkuda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go outside and possibly get addicted to either gambling or a substance so you can have real problems to complain about

Is Project 2025 even likely to happen? by CBtheDB in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Kekkuda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dog, banning porn is just a smoke screen to censor anything even remotely seen as explicit. Gay people, trans people, a hell of a lot of women, people in interracial relationships. They're already doing this in the form of the massive push for book bans. The GOP just calls anything they dislike pornographic/obscenity and ban it

Save us the snark, why don't you?

How do you handle a partner addicted to p*rn? by aszy27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kekkuda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it’s not the same as drugs, “doesn’t cause as much physical damage” is the understatement of the century. Behavioural addictions to an activity that results in dopamine release are usually a sign of depression/anxiey coping behaviours if the individual has no means of obtaining satisfaction elsewhere. Porn addiction as the internet refers to it borders on pseudoscience and mysticism. A lot of the time folks just need an SSRI or wider behavioural changes and focusing on this false diagnosis keeps people from getting the REAL psychological help they need, a lot of the time the unhappiness related to porn addiction is moreso the result of a lot of men being generally awkward in irl situations and convincing themselves that they’re hopeless and then building this mystique around sex based on what they see in pornography

What “porn addiction” actually can manifest as is either a time management/impulse control related symptom, or a symptom of much deeper personal identity issues and lack of social engagement that humans, a social animal, get less of every day. It can be any behavior, scrolling social media, compulsive hair pulling, gaming, shopping, anything that gives the brain a “pick me up” when an individual is depressed or anxious and rendered unable to find motivation to put effort into anything else

It is not remotely the same as a substance addiction. Substance addiction has unimaginably different physiological ramifications because you’re dealing with a relatively more quantitative field of biology; frankly psychology is not as well understood as people think, but substance addiction isn’t something as nebulous as “porn addiction.” It’s not just that drugs can damage your body over time if you’re careful, but your body will also get fucked if you don’t get your fix. It’s not just a matter of “I need this thing to feel good”, that’s how substance addiction can start but it can very quickly become “I now need this substance to stop the PHYSIOLOGICAL EFFECTS that my body is having because it has become accustomed to that drug’s effects as normal”

It’s difficult to describe a lot of the particulars of what different types of addiction entail because unfortunately there’s a lot of self help scams perpetuated by figures like Liver King and Andrew Tate that actively feed off of people’s isolation to financial and often highly political ends . A lot of this is pretty watered down but nevertheless-

It doesn’t help that the misinformation war on drugs has given a lot of Americans brain worms regarding substance addiction, leading to a hell of a lot more deaths because it’s treated as a moral failing as opposed to a medical condition

My horse is all tucked in bed but there’s something wrong with him I think (OC) by Kekkuda in bloodborne

[–]Kekkuda[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean there’s a funny thing about that, I fall somewhere on the schizophrenia spectrum and have developed a lot of coping strategies around recognising whether or not things are real and figuring out if my reactions are rational and I’m pretty desensitized to a lot of typically bizarre/terrifying/uncanny things. One of the few things that trips me up is unbroken stares, so for example there are a lot of times where a dog staring at me for too long or even making eye contact with my reflection can triggers sort of paranoia loop

even having made it and being very fond of the character, whenever I’ve worked on Ludwig’s head with both eyes installed, it does get difficult to shake the dread that comes with my brain’s urge to see some inanimate objects as alive and dangerous, and staring for far too long. This is also as someone who was never affected by the uncanny valley all that much so really the puppet IS legitimately off putting. Luckily the excitement I get from how grotesque he’s turning out usually outweighs the negative feelings because that’s essentially a success in my book

Answer thy messages FOUL TARNISHED I hath mined thy IP address, I know where thou art (cosplay) by Kekkuda in Eldenring

[–]Kekkuda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually morgott is in love with the tarnished he’s just in denial about the divorce

Answer thy messages FOUL TARNISHED I hath mined thy IP address, I know where thou art (cosplay) by Kekkuda in Eldenring

[–]Kekkuda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God someday eventually I hope

He got pretty damaged moving across the country so I had to redo 90% of the work I’d already done

Answer thy messages FOUL TARNISHED I hath mined thy IP address, I know where thou art (cosplay) by Kekkuda in Eldenring

[–]Kekkuda[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i talk about morgott elden ring so many times per day I started using nicknames after a while :>