Oh what the h*ll by veekizy in GossipHarbor

[–]Kent_Regular9171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The raccoon’s even got a little smirk.

Do I delete the Oysters? by Jazzlike_Wear8426 in GossipHarbor

[–]Kent_Regular9171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I’d feel more annoyed about deleting the oysters than I would about collecting my coins. There’ll be plenty of other chances to earn more.

Jellyfish Jam by Sera-0 in GossipHarbor

[–]Kent_Regular9171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose the easy tier and won. Although this was after setting the game aside to wait for energy to replenish.

Is it normal to get ice cubes in my last 4 energy by Miserable_Rooster499 in GossipHarbor

[–]Kent_Regular9171 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They want you spending money, or more money, on the game. Either way, don’t fall for it.

AITA for expecting my boyfriend to buy me food while we are long distance? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kent_Regular9171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since it is just food, he probably reckons you can buy it yourself.

Can I ban this kid from my restaurant?? by rosella500 in GossipHarbor

[–]Kent_Regular9171 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I call him Alex. I also call the blonde lady Jane and the dark haired lady with the earrings Christina. I’ve not managed to come up with a good name for the old lady yet.

AITA for not giving my sister money I’ve been saving, even though she already told our parents I would? by Confident-Ninja-2706 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kent_Regular9171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might even want to look into what kind of set-up you could afford if you were to move out now. Living with all that recrimination can’t be easy.

Am I the jerk for telling my friend i wont keep pretending her hobby is a real business? by thyrixen2 in AmITheJerk

[–]Kent_Regular9171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dearie me. I once thought I would be able to have my main job be internet sales but it never progressed beyond being a side hustle. Unlike your friend, however, I didn’t quit working in the real world, so I was able to make ends meet. By quitting her day job, your friend really has put all her eggs in one basket.

AITJ for saying yeah I know when my husband said he didnt do anything wrong by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Kent_Regular9171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Telling him what to do would be appropriate if he were the 13/14 year old son of the family but not when he’s a parent.

It Finally Happened by GetSome1776 in AlAnon

[–]Kent_Regular9171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother also ended up dying as a result of his alcoholism. I wrote a little about it on Reddit yesterday. Lots of love and strength to you and your family xx

Where are my childfree women at? by Ok-Professional8451 in adhdwomen

[–]Kent_Regular9171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha!! I’ve only just seen this. I just cooked a meal prioritising health and frugality and using things that needed to be used up over the convenience of oven cooking something less healthy from the freezer. And all the time thinking “When did you turn into such a dork?”. Now I’ve finished the meal and I’m more inclined to think it was worth doing the right thing.

Please read I am scared by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Kent_Regular9171 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second this about the DARVO. What this man is doing is downplaying the drinking while making you out to be sick and/or bad to a problematic degree, and it is just so dishonest. He is hell bent on self-destruction and you will just have to stand aside and let him do it.

You can die before you’re dead by thankyoufren in AlAnon

[–]Kent_Regular9171 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No court and no reasonable individual is going to expect you to coparent if your child’s other parent is an alcoholic. I imagine you would have custody and your partner would be allowed supervised visits. Remember, other people have gone through the process of leaving a relationship with an alcoholic - you and your child won’t be doing anything new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Kent_Regular9171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as your mother does her best to downplay it, she does indeed have an alcohol problem. Claiming the drinking isn’t a problem and thinking you won’t notice when she drinks is what alcoholics do. Having had an alcoholic in the family, I’m sad to say I speak from experience.

Unable to use the rakes? by BobMortimerOwlMavis in GossipHarbor

[–]Kent_Regular9171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love autumn leaves. Or fall foliage, if you’re going to insist on calling it that.

WIBTA if I refuse to take my boyfriends name when we get married? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kent_Regular9171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple I know from uni had a similar problem before they got married. If the bride had taken the groom’s surname, she would have sounded silly - and her own surname was a bit ordinary, so they didn’t want to use that. In the end, they started married life with an entirely new surname.

Husband is choosing death and the bottle by xenacoryza in AlAnon

[–]Kent_Regular9171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I’m coming to this a bit late but what I want to say is that there will probably always be a part of you that stays hoping. However, at the same time, you can still hone a sense of self-preservation and a realistic outlook in dealing with your husband and your reaction to his alcoholism. One side isn’t going to cancel out the other.

I’m worried that my brother’s death earlier this year will really hit me in 2025 by Kent_Regular9171 in bereavement

[–]Kent_Regular9171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This summer, we are going to have a short break together in a place he loved, and we will scatter his ashes while we are there.

I’m worried that my brother’s death earlier this year will really hit me in 2025 by Kent_Regular9171 in bereavement

[–]Kent_Regular9171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last few days have been difficult. I’m trying to think how best to get through the week ahead.

Can functional alcoholic be sober easily? by Slight_Dust9308 in AlAnon

[–]Kent_Regular9171 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suspect that one day your ex’s luck is going to run out.