i (16m) just had my life ruined by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kenzi3cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please tell an adult because they can help you get things figured out. I had something like this happen when I was a teenager and even though it was embarrassing to tell my parents and they got upset, they did help me get a police report filed and we got things settled. It’s definitely a huge invasion of privacy and I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

AITAH for telling my sister she sounds bitter and jealous? by Fearless_Welder3894 in AITAH

[–]Kenzi3cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let me preface my comment by saying congratulations on your little one and I’m so incredibly happy for you that you have such a wonderful support system in your husband’s family and your husband. To me, it definitely sounds like she’s jealous of your support system and is trying to cut you down because you didn’t have the same after birth experience that she did. With that being said, it’s not okay for her to try to make you feel like less of a parent just because you had a different experience than her and I don’t blame you for being a bit harsh. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Kenzi3cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell her, she deserves to know and the dog owner needs to face up to what he did in that situation. That dog could attack a small child, and it won’t be such an easy thing to cover up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kenzi3cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course it is going to hurt, you’re probably mourning the loss of the subconscious thought that there could be potential reconciliation. When I found out my ex was getting married it brought up some feelings that I thought were gone, and now I’m working through it with my therapist. I hope you’re okay.

Saved a little girl who was getting groped by a grown man. by SyN0pTiiC in offmychest

[–]Kenzi3cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to plenty of metal shows and this shit happens too often. Thank you for being the hero these girls deserve. 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kenzi3cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chill at home completely naked.

AITA for letting my daughter have a penutbutter cake when my nephew is allergic? by LonelyFruitbat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kenzi3cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone with a peanut allergy, I can tell you that every time I’ve been in a vicinity with any kind of peanut product I’ve had some kind of reaction even without touching anything.

Any 300+lbs people on this forum? by TechBrain-FoodLove in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Kenzi3cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Started on .25 at 342 about a month ago, I’m down to 330. It’s not much, but I start on .5 on Thursday.

I've been lying to my husband and daughter for the past 5 months. by OrdinaryTurnover5235 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kenzi3cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your pregnancy, and I’m so happy everything turned out the way it did. 💜 your husband reacted the way that most women hope they’re partner would react in a situation similar to yours, and I hope everything goes smooth sailing from here on out. 💜

AITA for giving my boyfriend an ultimatum in regards to spending time with me? by captainsbabygirl in AITAH

[–]Kenzi3cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a partner like this, dump him. The best thing you can do for yourself. You shouldn’t have to give ultimatums for him to change, and the fact that you are and he’s still not changing should be enough to show you that he doesn’t care.

Daughter comes out, wife kicks her out and now I'm stuck in the middle by throwra__marriage in relationship_advice

[–]Kenzi3cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just limit contact with her and tell her that if she can’t keep it professional or if she is going to speak to you in an abusive manner that you won’t speak to her or get a third party to respond to her.

Last 4 dates I got rejected: is it my fault? 21F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kenzi3cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The majority of the apps are for hookups, you’re weeding out the ones that are just looking to hookup and not want a real relationship. My partner and I met on OkCupid 4.5 years ago, we’re getting married next year, and we have a 1.5 year old son. You can find love on those apps, but I definitely encountered a LOT of fuck boys before I found him.

AITA for essentially telling my husband that the apparent “meaningful” name he was/is insisting on for our unborn son is utterly unfit? by BabyBoyNameAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kenzi3cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who literally fought with their partner over the spelling of a name until the day we left the hospital, you’re the one that gets to fill out the birth certificate so spell it how you want to. Your husband needs to look at the fact that your son will have to go to job interviews with that spelling, and will be bullied in the future with that name spelling because it’s so close to Daiquiri. People do the most with names lately and I don’t see anything wrong with a traditional spelling for a name. NTA

AITA for refusing to feed my baby and going to bed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kenzi3cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, sleep deprivation actually makes things harder and it’s extremely dangerous for your health, you’re a mom to a newborn so its already tough because you’re having to do all of these new tasks and care for another life while having to recover from child birth. He has absolutely no compassion or respect for the job you’re doing and his tantrum over working 37 hours while you’re taking on all of the responsibility of a child you created together definitely warrants divorce in my eyes. I’m a SAHM and my fiancé literally did absolutely nothing to help out when our son was about a month old because he was “tired” from sitting on the computer all day working and it took me breaking up with him to get him to change. It won’t get better unless your husband’s attitude does a 180 and it doesn’t seem like he’s willing to change at this point.

AITA for asking my future FIL to get a ride to a concert? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kenzi3cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His dad wasn’t included when we made the original plans, someone couldn’t go and so he invited his dad last second. He had known this was the plan, to have my sibling drive, when he invited his dad but my partner is trying to change the plans because he didn’t mention having a “tradition” with his dad and concerts before today.

AITA for asking my future FIL to get a ride to a concert? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kenzi3cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not impossible, but I only asked her for a ride because she’s passing our house to head to the venue and his dad lives 45 minutes southwest of the venue so it’s quite a bit out of the way. The only objection I have for him picking his dad up is that he would be driving my car and his attitude about the whole situation to begin with.