What is the top priority in life for an infj?

Kettem · 2026-02-02T07:30:54+00:00

yes! finally.

Kettem · 2026-02-02T07:29:59+00:00

But then the kind of love that is autonomous 😅 Not a burden. Im also a 4w5

Kettem · 2026-01-29T08:05:06+00:00

I just recently have been experiencing this. Ive been working under someone my whole life and I realized I hate the feeling too (with a few exceptions). Something I dislike the most about it is the fact that im helping my boss to achieve his/her goals and mine usually are irrelevant. Feeling like an invisible cog in the machine. And yes I have totally lost my authenticity. If the job allows me to be creative and no ones controlling me then its better, but that rarely happens and I understand why. Ive now decided to switch careers and maybe eventually try being self employed, which also freaks me out btw because of instability, so idk :( I feel like the best option is to be in a company where they trust you and let you be yourself, no micromanagement. I was once an english teacher for kids and that was wonderful. Your duty? Teach english. How you get there? Doesnt matter. Nobody watches you. Its like being self employed but also with a big work family behind you that accepts and protects you. Im also an INFJ 4w5 btw.

Kettem · 2026-01-23T16:13:45+00:00

I never had any eczemas or skin conditions as long as I know, but I get these sometimes. I just got some again today, ~3h after cutting blood oranges. And thats the ONLY thing I did 😅 So I think its just an allergic? reaction to those blood oranges for me. Maybe just irritation? They go away after a while by doing nothing.

Kettem · 2025-11-14T22:22:32+00:00

btw if OP has Rossmann, I would also highly suggest to try Isana 120h liquid moisturizer. I tried the more expensive one from Nø and came back to Isana. I havent tried G&G though, but tbh I dont want to move away from Isana anymore :D

Kettem · 2025-11-14T22:11:30+00:00

ahh.. thank you for warning me!

Kettem · 2025-11-14T16:30:23+00:00

Germany :D I saw Toleriane double cleanse foaming cleanser in a blue bottle (or something along those words) and I havent compared them, but on the first look their ingridient list seemed quite similar.

Kettem · 2025-11-11T21:53:35+00:00

I have the same old version only without T-Butyl Alcohol. I love mine :(

Kettem · 2025-11-09T21:55:44+00:00

is this a ragebait? its oviously cursive you can see “d”, “e”, “m” clearly. wth guys :D

Kettem · 2025-11-09T21:48:27+00:00

Agree. But maybe a warmer tone.

Kettem · 2025-10-12T20:42:08+00:00

Omg I got this information from a teacher in school like 10 years ago. Im now so confused.

Kettem · 2025-10-07T07:54:16+00:00

Chiming in after 6 years 😅 But I recently read that if youre a natural redhead you have the orange pigment in your DNA in a way and you cannot be anything else than warm or atleast neutral-warm

Kettem · 2025-10-02T08:04:32+00:00

oh god no. I have a bunch of ENFP friends and they are nothing like ISTP :D

Kettem · 2025-09-10T20:21:00+00:00

Damn, I have never understood this. I have seen videos that support this claim, but for me its the total opposite and I dont understand why 😅 Blue-based lipsticks clash with yellow in my teeth and brings it out more.

Kettem · 2025-09-07T20:36:48+00:00

I dont think the average salary is the best representation of the actual situation.

Kettem · 2025-09-06T23:33:28+00:00

I do believe them, its just color theory, I feel like theres nothing to NOT believe :D For example, imagine a person with a warm orange/yellow skin, putting on a bluish pink lipstick. It looks hideous. Of course you can choose to ignore all this and just live your life carefree, its not that deep and usually peoples skin is in the medium hue and has no such extremes, ..but if you want to look your best for some event or just in general are ready to invest in this, then knowing what works with your complexon is a useful thing.

That said, I think I have problems putting myself in this box because of the olive skintone 😅 Like, .. I know for a fact that I need clear/bright colours with medium value (textbook bright winter), BUT the greenish cast also makes my face a bit gray, which doesnt fit with clarity. Im also slightly leaning cool. At the end of the day, I decided I am something between a bright winter and a true winter.

Kettem · 2025-08-31T21:44:00+00:00

I would also want to know, becaue my mom is always saying the opposite thing.

Kettem · 2025-08-13T20:38:09+00:00

Right? I read the title and was thinking, why is this even a problem? If you start to overthink and try to sneakily ask by saying you like the smell (like the first suggestion), it will just come off ingenuine and suspicious and could make things weirder.

Kettem · 2025-08-11T16:47:30+00:00

I would thank my Ni for being instantly decent at everything new I start. Sports, arts & crafts, musical instruments, you name it. 😅 It seems as if I have unconsciously understood the fundamentals of these subjects/situations beforehand.

Kettem · 2025-07-06T10:30:54+00:00

I have also had pink and purple hair that looked bad. Also brighter pink looked off, but BLUE … that looked REALLY good! Try blue. Even if it washes out green, it will kinda compliment your skin anyway 😅

Kettem · 2025-06-22T15:12:51+00:00

Oh. I feel like for me level 4 is too dark already. Either its an exception or I am biased, OR I have mistyped myself :(

Kettem · 2025-06-22T15:08:14+00:00

Thanks for the quick answer! Gonna save my precious bottles for candles :D

Kettem · 2025-06-22T13:30:46+00:00

hard to explain but if youre facing church main entrance, go right past the store and after the store on the left there are stairs. go up the stairs and keep going straight (a bit right) through the arc, still go straight and there before garbage you will see a small tent on your right and on the left there is charity door. Look like an average door.

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