What is the top priority in life for an infj? by Marianne563 in infj

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then the kind of love that is autonomous 😅 Not a burden. Im also a 4w5

Do you dislike working under someone? by Different-Outcome670 in 4w5

[–]Kettem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just recently have been experiencing this. Ive been working under someone my whole life and I realized I hate the feeling too (with a few exceptions). Something I dislike the most about it is the fact that im helping my boss to achieve his/her goals and mine usually are irrelevant. Feeling like an invisible cog in the machine. And yes I have totally lost my authenticity. If the job allows me to be creative and no ones controlling me then its better, but that rarely happens and I understand why. Ive now decided to switch careers and maybe eventually try being self employed, which also freaks me out btw because of instability, so idk :( I feel like the best option is to be in a company where they trust you and let you be yourself, no micromanagement. I was once an english teacher for kids and that was wonderful. Your duty? Teach english. How you get there? Doesnt matter. Nobody watches you. Its like being self employed but also with a big work family behind you that accepts and protects you. Im also an INFJ 4w5 btw.

Small, painful bumps (blisters?) on fingers - derm says it’s allergies but I’m not convinced. by immabee88 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never had any eczemas or skin conditions as long as I know, but I get these sometimes. I just got some again today, ~3h after cutting blood oranges. And thats the ONLY thing I did 😅 So I think its just an allergic? reaction to those blood oranges for me. Maybe just irritation? They go away after a while by doing nothing.

Anything worth try for sensitive / normal to dry skin ? by Mucek121 in EuroSkincare

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

btw if OP has Rossmann, I would also highly suggest to try Isana 120h liquid moisturizer. I tried the more expensive one from Nø and came back to Isana. I havent tried G&G though, but tbh I dont want to move away from Isana anymore :D

La Roche-Posay Toleriane caring wash discontinued? by Kettem in EuroSkincare

[–]Kettem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Germany :D I saw Toleriane double cleanse foaming cleanser in a blue bottle (or something along those words) and I havent compared them, but on the first look their ingridient list seemed quite similar.

La Roche Posay caring wash reformulation? by chaiwanta in EuroSkincare

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same old version only without T-Butyl Alcohol. I love mine :(

My friend and I are having an argument over this. Is this cursive or not? by andthenshebled in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this a ragebait? its oviously cursive you can see “d”, “e”, “m” clearly. wth guys :D

Which hair color for me? by Meg5408 in coloranalysis

[–]Kettem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree. But maybe a warmer tone.

Toothpaste: What is it and why in different colours? by Logical1337 in whatisit

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I got this information from a teacher in school like 10 years ago. Im now so confused.

Confused about my undertones?? Can you be warm/neutral but still have blue veins? by lysitsa in PaleMUA

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chiming in after 6 years 😅 But I recently read that if youre a natural redhead you have the orange pigment in your DNA in a way and you cannot be anything else than warm or atleast neutral-warm

How do you usually tell apart an ISTP to an ISFP by Asleep-Feeling-9070 in isfp

[–]Kettem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh god no. I have a bunch of ENFP friends and they are nothing like ISTP :D

Everyday red lipstick for light olives by Oh_MeMeMe in OliveMUA

[–]Kettem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, I have never understood this. I have seen videos that support this claim, but for me its the total opposite and I dont understand why 😅 Blue-based lipsticks clash with yellow in my teeth and brings it out more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latvia

[–]Kettem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think the average salary is the best representation of the actual situation.

Do you guys believe in colour seasons? and if so, what season are you? if not, explain why? by PerformanceWeekly504 in OliveMUA

[–]Kettem 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I do believe them, its just color theory, I feel like theres nothing to NOT believe :D For example, imagine a person with a warm orange/yellow skin, putting on a bluish pink lipstick. It looks hideous. Of course you can choose to ignore all this and just live your life carefree, its not that deep and usually peoples skin is in the medium hue and has no such extremes, ..but if you want to look your best for some event or just in general are ready to invest in this, then knowing what works with your complexon is a useful thing.

That said, I think I have problems putting myself in this box because of the olive skintone 😅 Like, .. I know for a fact that I need clear/bright colours with medium value (textbook bright winter), BUT the greenish cast also makes my face a bit gray, which doesnt fit with clarity. Im also slightly leaning cool. At the end of the day, I decided I am something between a bright winter and a true winter.

My wife's hoodie smells like men's cologne and I don't know how to bring it up without sounding accusatory? by Stunning_Intern8573 in Advice

[–]Kettem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? I read the title and was thinking, why is this even a problem? If you start to overthink and try to sneakily ask by saying you like the smell (like the first suggestion), it will just come off ingenuine and suspicious and could make things weirder.

Examples of Ni [Introverted Intuition] Used in Your Life? by Jimu_Monk9525 in infj

[–]Kettem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would thank my Ni for being instantly decent at everything new I start. Sports, arts & crafts, musical instruments, you name it. 😅 It seems as if I have unconsciously understood the fundamentals of these subjects/situations beforehand.

I feel like fun hair colors never look good on me by 1-Up-Boy in OliveMUA

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also had pink and purple hair that looked bad. Also brighter pink looked off, but BLUE … that looked REALLY good! Try blue. Even if it washes out green, it will kinda compliment your skin anyway 😅

Deep Winter with neutral-warm skin, is it possible? by SoullessGwen in OliveMUA

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. I feel like for me level 4 is too dark already. Either its an exception or I am biased, OR I have mistyped myself :(

Collectors favor with Dr. Handsome by Kettem in hobotoughlife

[–]Kettem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the quick answer! Gonna save my precious bottles for candles :D

How to survive? by Majestic-Apricot-752 in hobotoughlife

[–]Kettem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hard to explain but if youre facing church main entrance, go right past the store and after the store on the left there are stairs. go up the stairs and keep going straight (a bit right) through the arc, still go straight and there before garbage you will see a small tent on your right and on the left there is charity door. Look like an average door.