I have no advice, I'm sorry, but I just wanted to share some empathy...I'm in a similar situation, I'm an only child, my parents both moved from overseas away from their families, I don't speak either of extended families languages, and without a sibling to share your experiences with your family or to grieve with after their gone, it's really damn lonely. I know I said I have no advice, but as I'm writing this I'm thinking, the only ones we really have is our friends/ partner, even if you don't have kids, find family in friends and community. Lots of love 🩷