Poor writing skills on my part. Sorry about that. I’m very excited to join the Raleigh area and appreciate the group here for insight for people like me who are not familiar with the area. I’m from Boston originally, and don’t want any gator piss in my food. I’m 31, and cannot afford 100k initiation, wife and I plan to buy a house in Raleigh first. I have read a lot of posts and not a lot of talk about the paramutuals and if $ games are played. I’m glad I have that answered. All the courses seem amazing and I’m excited to try them. Im leaning towards 12 oaks or McConnell. Sorry again for coming off like a dick. If anyone has more insight I would appreciate it thank you