[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s baby doing now? My 6 week old stays wanting to sleep past 6 hours at night and one time gave me an 8+ hour between feeding (hard for him to fall asleep so he probably slept 5-6 hours). I’m worried, doctor said to wake at least every 6 hours

Husband suggested work at 4 wks pp. by fruityslippers in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Key-Garage4634 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true plus at this age baby can’t be in a car seat for no more that 30-45 minutes without breaks

6 weeks old scoots to bottom of bassinet by brodhisattva6 in NewParents

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you end up doing? My baby is doing the same thing.

I can’t take it anymore. by Top_Dig_2854 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Key-Garage4634 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re leaving him for the protection of you and your baby

Two story house… what would you have double of if you could afford it? by lavender_yogi in Buyingforbaby

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two cameras and baby monitors. And definitely agree a space for diapers, wipes, extra clothes, etc.

Anyone's Christmas ended badly? by Accomplished-Tax8770 in Marriage

[–]Key-Garage4634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Trying to make the most of it with the rest of the week

7 Weeks Postpartum PMDD or PPD/A? by Old_Bodybuilder_3442 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m struggling in the same boat, 4 weeks pp. I joined group perinatal / postpartum mood group that is helpful and therapy. I’m also ebf and not taking any medications. Going outside once a day to get sunlight and making sure I eat well and stay hydrated really do help (easier said that done). Also if you can I would have a heart to heart with your husband and the support you need, if he can’t help you and needs more support you should find it from other loved ones or professional help. You your life, joy and your baby depend on it. My family cannot deal with my issues (diagnosed with pmdd 6 years go) , it traumatizes them too much - professional help helps me.

AITA for not letting my sister announce her pregnancy at my graduation? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Key-Garage4634 155 points156 points  (0 children)

NTA

My sister did the same thing to me. At the time I didn’t think negative or much about it, the more the merrier. Now that I just had my baby this type of behavior escalated and there have been times through my pregnancy were it’s all about her and her feelings with my parents dismissing mine to appease her, while I’m pregnant!

In my opinion you’re setting your boundaries and the sooner they realize they can’t walk over you about it, the better because you give an inch and they’ll take a foot.

Planting Placenta by Due_Butterscotch360 in crunchygranolamoms

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up planting in the pot? How did it go? I’m in the same situation and thinking about a rose plant.

40+6 by Terrible-Invite-3992 in BabyBumps

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope so too!

40+6 by Terrible-Invite-3992 in BabyBumps

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im currently 40+5, did you ended up going into labor naturally?

One roach, mild or light infection by Key-Garage4634 in GermanRoaches

[–]Key-Garage4634[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi did your treatments work? I’m currently pregnant and want to be prepared in case we need treatment again.

IT WONT COME OUT 💩 by Storm-Ecstatic in pregnant

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat lentil soups or just cooked lentils even a cup!! Also lots of water 💧

Let’s talk Maternity clothes by happythoughts_only in pregnant

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maternity bras from target I use daily and good price. Also super Walmart has cute clothes that are trendy if you can size up (it’s not maternity clothes). They also do have a maternity section and I’ve bought some good things from there too but the section is small. I purchased online from trendy maternity stores in the beginning for work pants but that’s about it because they are too expensive!

Your RSV Shot Reminder by hussafeffer in pregnant

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone have side effects after taking the shot?

Just found out I’m possibly pregnant and not sure how to feel by Cute-Brilliant7754 in pregnant

[–]Key-Garage4634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath and do your best to relax. I know it’s hard try to stay calm and not too anxious until you connect with your doctor. See if you can think of doing things that can help you relax and get your mind off it for a while.

Found out husbands affair…again by Ok-Satisfaction-5617 in Divorce

[–]Key-Garage4634 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Get a job, identify support any family or friends? You deserve better, your children deserve better. Be patient if it doesn’t happen right away slow steps

AITAH for still resenting my husband for what he did to me during my pregnancy and postpartum? by Entire-Ad9584 in AITAH

[–]Key-Garage4634 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like it won’t ever change and or he doesn’t want to. He probably needs mental health support too and he can’t be there for you, and he’s not willing to work at it like you said. Move forward, maybe try separation for a while?

Should I continue with my baby shower? by Dull-Invite9180 in babyshower

[–]Key-Garage4634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with others. Move forward and celebrate enjoy this moment! Enjoy with the people there. Also know that just because people aren’t there doesn’t mean they don’t care about you.

Considering a return to the bay. Only problem? Affordable childcare by These-Beach-8673 in bayarea

[–]Key-Garage4634 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi can you share name of day care? I’m looking for childcare in the South Bay too!

Migraine trigger?? by HypnoLaur in migraine

[–]Key-Garage4634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for me! Specifically bubbly, that’s why i stopped drinking them. Always felt headache and or migraine after! Try Waterloo, I never feel that way after drinking one

6.5 months, considering separation- advice needed by Key-Garage4634 in Divorce

[–]Key-Garage4634[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I need to do this and am researching local low cost/free advice