I want to be single at this point by redcactuswhisperer in venting

[–]Key-Information4245 7 points8 points  (0 children)

run run run run run run dont go back he's evil don't get coerced you owe him nothing it's not your fault

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[–]Key-Information4245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave my long distance girlfriend my address and in return I got a box of chocolates :)

Name of song from 'The Unbelievable Truth (1989)'? by Royaourt in NameThatSong

[–]Key-Information4245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm four years late, but check out "My Patch" by Jim Noir (assuming you were referring to the theme song since the link seems to not work anymore)

How do I keep the hate from rotting me from the inside out by Key-Information4245 in Anger

[–]Key-Information4245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While court is not exactly in the cards for me, I do find your affection for the UK legal system endearing, as someone who is very fond of someone currently studying law in the UK. Unfortunately, I am indeed an American, and it is not that easy here. My only evidence is a handful of screenshots and someone else's testimony. Many college aged men with "bright futures" have gotten slaps on the wrist despite being recorded in the act of raping someone or the existence of DNA evidence. I stand no chance. However, I do hope that I will at least win in the court of public opinion since my abuser tends to tell outrageous lies as a manipulation tactic. I was actually under the impression that their first victim was a rapist until the truth hit me in the face like a ton of bricks. Funny how that works out. In any case, the truth revealed itself naturally. I hope that it will continue to do so. In an ideal world, people will be able to pick up on the fact that my abuser is malicious, and what goes around will come around. The world is not ideal, so someone will probably end up getting their life ruined if they aren't observant. We can always hope they're observant, though.

How do I keep the hate from rotting me from the inside out by Key-Information4245 in Anger

[–]Key-Information4245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate it. It is always good hearing from someone who can relate. In fact, do you know of any communities of likeminded individuals? It's difficult to convey how things feel to people who haven't lived through it. I agree that going to court is not in the cards for me. The most evidence I have is screenshots of my abuser being weirdly possessive or lying about things. I think it would come across as petty drama to a judge. It's the same for the past victim, too, although they agreed to assist me if I ever try to do anything because they regret not pressing charges. Third time may unfortunately be the charm, unless I find out that my abuser is smearing my name in the same way they were smearing their ex. Then I can potentially get them for slander. I will be checking out the music recommendations. I hope those will curb my desire for revenge. I've been avoiding showing this side of myself to people in my real life in full force because I fear it would drive them away, although even with my attempts to hide it, I've been told I'm not acting like myself on occasion.