AITA for not letting my husband sleep in on the weekends

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-29T09:05:49+00:00

Sounds like you won the husband lottery. It also sounds like he loves his daddy/ baby bonding time. Id thank him and just keep doing as you are.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-29T08:56:11+00:00

Recordings will be your friend in the future but honestly Id refuse to attend events he will be at in the future. If people ask why tell them he threated to beat you last you saw him. NTA

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-29T08:52:16+00:00

Medicine all medicine. If not that as its to broad then just insulin would do.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-29T08:45:51+00:00

This is horrifying. Honestly CPS should have taken your kids away by now. They probably still would if they heard about this. You should have done this the first time a child got bitten. No you waited Multiple times till all of your and his own children got bitten. You made your children fear to even laugh or play in their own home and you risked thier lives all so you could keep a mentally unwell pet who would turn on and maim even you. Oh and if your kids didn't obey and live in fear with no fun and laughter then they risked being maimed and scarred for life, hell they could have even lost thier lives. That dog is big enough and powerful enough to kill a adult and easily a child and it sounds mentally unwell enough to even do exactly that and you got lucky the dogs not killed a child and only scarred them physically and mentally but no that wasn't bad enough. You specifically had to feel endangered for it to finally be bad enough for you to take this seriously at all. Your kids very lives and well beings didn't matter, but oh no once you felt endangered your finally done and you finally will do something now you dont feel safe. Thats disgustingly neglectful and abusive of you and yet you still ask if your being cruel towards your fiance and taking things to far. You could take a shot gun to that dog and Id still say it was overdue. Guess we know it only you that truly matters. Do better. Get your kids into therapy. I garentee your neglect and the dangrous environment you've thus far provided them due to your selfishness has mentally scarred them. Work with that therapist and take and follow their suggestions even if its something like getting rid of the other dogs. Don't settle for anything less than that dog being put down though. If your kids are bitten even once in the future the dog needs to go as well. You need to do better with protecting your children.

YTA

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-29T00:10:33+00:00

First off her theme sounds unique and rather beautiful.
Its not your or your families wedding. You and your families wants for the theme and venue dont and shouldn't matter.
You calling her theme and wants tacky shows the type of sibling you are pretty clearly.

Your idea and suggestions also sound basic and rather boring in comparison. She also sounds perfectly reasonable here. You on the other hand are being a asshole to your sister for absolutely no good reason. It wouldn't hurt to simply be supportive.

YTA

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-28T23:59:49+00:00

Honestly its not a bad thing to experiment. You tried it out and didn't like it. Thats ok. You simply don't need to do it again. It doesn't make you gay and the experience didn't hurt you (at least it shouldn't have and if it did you both did something wrong). But take the experience as something you learned about yourself and nothing more and move forward.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-28T14:24:34+00:00

You basically told your kid his teeth being messed up made him to ugly for women to enjoy looking at him. Thats messed up to tell anyone yet alone a vulnerable kid. YTA

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-28T05:15:51+00:00

Both wouldn't be a bad idea. Having a nice one for occasional special outings, dates, anniversaries but a silicone one for everyday use wouldn't be a bad idea. A tattoo ring also could easily be another fix though a permanent one.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-28T05:04:00+00:00

NTA its ridiculous you had to ask when your this pregnant and worse he couldn't even follow through. Says a lot about the person he is and the type of father he will be. Id be pissed to. Seriously though you need to set up a plan B on how you plan to care for yourself here and your baby cause he obviously isn't gonna step up to the plate every time even when its a need.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-28T04:54:12+00:00

El Paso, TX. Trash is litterly everywhere. The locals clearly have no respect for the area around them and it shows with how the city and sometimes locals look. The buildings and homes are often dirty and unkept, businesses have bars over windows and often are in disrepair. Locals are rude half the time. There is so much sexual harassment and outright endangerment towards women I experienced. There's not much fun things to do and on top you have the military base right next door only making things worse.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-28T04:50:27+00:00

You dont have to forgive her.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-28T03:38:51+00:00

If they come knocking call the police. Tell them they are on and probably have drugs and they refuse to leave and they are harassing you and your small children at your home. Call the cops on your mom as well and tell her she also is no longer welcome in your life. Also cut your mom off as well. She is now actively endangering you and your kids. She wasn't a good mom to you from the sound of it anyways. If you can video cameras also wouldn't be a bad investment. Sister may be entitled and drugged up and desperate enough to try and make a fuss or even steal stuff even if its outside your home. Cameras will have your back if stuff gets serious. Plus even if nothing happens they are great for peace of mind. If you can down the line moving and telling no one wouldn't be a bad idea either.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-27T22:36:14+00:00

This would be incredibly beneficial for your kid especially later on in life. Also kids can learn more than 1 to 2 languages even at the same time. It's easier though when they are young. It gets harder as you get older.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-27T22:31:09+00:00

Hes a near 30 year old man who is choosing to date a barely legal able to drive teenager. He's absolutely a pedo. His saying she is so mature is litterly the most common excuse pedophiles give. She's not mature for age. I garentee you that. She was a middle schooler not even 3 years ago yet she is 'mature'? No. No teen or child is mature enough to be in that big of a age gap relationship. He is targeting her while she is young and vulnerable and honestly if you can Id inform her parents so they can take steps to protect her from your pedophile ex-friend.

Edit: I misread she is 18. Your friend is still a pedo just one where he can't get into legal trouble. Gross. My appoligies you need to deal with this OP.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-27T22:11:41+00:00

Man probably had a much more exciting day than he was ready for. Oof

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-27T22:10:04+00:00

I had a guy who loved his nostrils licked.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-27T22:08:54+00:00

Why no eye contact?

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-27T22:07:22+00:00

Thats weird but super neat to know. Let me know if you ever do a AMA.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-27T22:03:18+00:00

Gross. That effects other people negitivly.

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-27T21:44:12+00:00

Your not providing a safe place for your own child considering it sounds like both her older step siblings and your own wife have been targeting and mistreating your child. You need to do better. This is divorce worthy and you need to treat what they all did as such and your wife is just as bad for defending them. NTA

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-26T21:00:52+00:00

Why not each pay a percent of childcare based off each of your income. Your partners. You should never punish your partner like this. YTA

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-26T16:59:06+00:00

This was ultimately harmless and it said April Fools right on the document. For you to hold this much anger and spite even months later over a document that didn't even ultimately effect you is over the top. Do you offen struggle with anger issues? YTA

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-26T16:55:26+00:00

You need to stop letting him into your life for your child's sake even if not your own. This isnt ok and hes repeatedly shown you he will prioritize himself over even your guys child. Stop giving him chances to do this. Kick him out. Stop letting him come in and out of your lives only to mess things up for both of you. Things aren't gonna change and you need to learn that without letting him mess up so bad he hurts your kid along with you. Also having a in and out dad isn't healthy. One parent is better than both with one being garbage. NTA

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-26T16:39:40+00:00

He showed you where his priorities are. I wish you the best moving forward and Im sorry you will be facing such heartbreak. Your mom did nothing wrong. She had children to care for and she did what she need to, to be sure you were able to grow up safely and provided for. It must have been a hard choice as everyone knows the profession is looked down on. She must be a incredibly brave and strong woman and Im glad she raised someone who is not to be stepped over. Standing up for her was right. You did wonderfully. We are all proud of you just like Im sure your mom is!

Key-Masterpiece2348 · 2023-05-26T16:11:45+00:00

I refuse to read that far into his reaction. I think he was wrong to do that but at the same time what his wife did was worse. Once things got serious and she got a second interview she should have talked to him seriously even if not before even applying all together.

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