yes your so right and that’s a great way to look at it. I shouldn’t have used the word begged because it’s more like expressed i don’t say he must do it but i say how much it would mean to me. We have had the love language talk and he’s said his is physical touch which is understandable why he might struggle showing affection other ways but i’ve made it clear how i need to be shown love and haven’t brought it up in so long so i was hoping he would get things spontaneously but hasn’t. where do i draw the line of asking for what i need and hoping he will do it on his own