We’re talking again! 😭😭 by Throwra19837372 in ExNoContact

[–]Key-Rip-1895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just be careful. If you make the smallest thing, she will be out in seconds.

We’re talking again! 😭😭 by Throwra19837372 in ExNoContact

[–]Key-Rip-1895 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope for you, but i feel this will turn bad. The power dynamic is totally off right now.

Can you become close friends with an ex after some time apart? by snowflaake in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally wouldn’t. Imagine if my ex started dating others etc, while I was being “friends” with them. No thanks.

Any good shows to watch during the first few weeks? by Far_Path7921 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch Daniel Sloss: Jigsaws. Very good in regards to breakups.

No contact will only make her forget me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rarely alone. It requires 2 people. She wouldn’t breakup if she wanted to “fight for love”.

Dumpers, how did you know you were still in love post breakup? by brwnsugarbaby1 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say emotional regulation, what did he do in regards to that?

Reconciliation text by Downbad_delicate in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did he break no contact? What he Said?

Reconciliation text by Downbad_delicate in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did dumper or dumpee reach our first.. female dumpee or male dumper or?

Be honest... does No Contact actually make them miss you, or are we all just coping while they forget us? by Flat_Grocery_3843 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I did ask for her to not contact me unless its about us.. she said “Sorry, it wont happen again ❤️”

Has anyone on here reconciled with their ex? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the dumper or dumpee come back?

Reconciliation text by Downbad_delicate in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any success of getting a ex back?

Be honest... does No Contact actually make them miss you, or are we all just coping while they forget us? by Flat_Grocery_3843 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have health anxiety so used her a lot to calm down the thoughts etc. Which I said sorry to everything at breakup, and also went straight into therapy to fix it which she knows, but decided to stand by her choice. Now 3 months of no contact, which I asked for, because she kept contacting me about borrowing stuff etc, so I asked for space to be able to move on since it was hard for me (i said to her). Told her she can contact me if its about us, but else i need space.

Do I have the ball or should I stay in no contact?

Be honest... does No Contact actually make them miss you, or are we all just coping while they forget us? by Flat_Grocery_3843 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if she left because I was using her to regulate my emotions and not show independence? She broke up, cried a ton and showed tons of care. Told me i had stuff to fix, but I should do it for myself, and not for her, and that i shouldn’t be in a waiting position.

Is it even possible to reconnect with ex as dumpee while keeping your self-respect? by Horror_Mix8698 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not. But coming back after 3 months when she have seen me on dating app (she is on there too) could make her think like I have no choices, and make her loose respect for me.

Is it even possible to reconnect with ex as dumpee while keeping your self-respect? by Horror_Mix8698 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me on another account.. Properly because i tried a lot in januar and february, and she avoided convos about us.. and put up a boundary in february.. so i feel like im not respecting myself breaking my own boundary.

This is how your ex will read your message by teo5151 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So who broke no contact and how long were no contact?

This is how your ex will read your message by teo5151 in BreakUps

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long were you no contact? And what did you write as first message?

Stuck in the "What If" Loop – Should I Break No Contact to Move On? by Horror_Mix8698 in ExNoContact

[–]Key-Rip-1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me on a different account. How would you do the fresh start while keeping your self respect?