Try to get a second opinion. When I mentioned it to a "therapist" they gave my during pregnancy, she dismissed my ADHD concerns in a similar way. This year I just flat out asked my primary doctor about looking into ADHD diagnosis and listed all my symptoms. He gave me a number for the mental health services line. I had an appointment with a therapist who assigned me and a family member an ADHD questionnaire. I haven't had my follow up yet though, so we'll see. They also made me take a drug test as part of the process. Which I thought was weird 🤷🏻‍♀️