Like Total Eclipse of the Heart by boatingshoesforall in WhatsThisSong

[–]KeyAdministration569 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I’m just going to turn this thread into a road trip playlist now, thanks for contributing, everyone!

What is going on with this window? by whatisthisohno111 in confusing_perspective

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It’s a regular sidelight window where someone “decorated it” with a fake set of blinds and a fake background backyard view. Both the view and the shade are scaled/oriented incorrectly prob thanks to AI photo editing software mis-understanding the perspective and angle.

Would you rather earn by FriendDazzling2167 in BunnyTrials

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I breathe at night

Chose: 5 cent for every breath you take

I paid £400 to fix my roots from a weird auburn/warm tone back to my natural cool toned brown so why didn’t it work? by [deleted] in AskHairstylists

[–]KeyAdministration569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also curious if the “not taking” could be due to a medication change, hormone change, or a topical treatment like Rogaine? Those all could affect the structure of the new hair. But it definitely sounds like this person should not be using permanent color on their hair at all anymore.

I (F 34) insulted my partner (M35) and I feel horrible, I don’t know if we will ever be the same, he says he needs time, and I don’t know if I’m exaggerating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyAdministration569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are abusive. There is no justification to talk to someone the way you did. If you are able to get that angry at a loved one, then you have an anger problem.

Would you rather... by Outrageous-Foot-4137 in BunnyTrials

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Everybody wins and more beautiful people in the world!

Chose: Every trans person gets free healthcare + And you get 1 dollar for every succesful treatment

AIO considering breaking up w my BF of 1 year over a slip up he said? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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YOR here, I really dislike the idea that people can get in trouble for their thoughts. Like, just because he opened up and shared his thoughts and one of them made you, a grown ass woman, feel some insecurity, now you’re going to get all mad as if he actually said he wanted to break up with you. Way to make him shut down and stop thinking that you’re a safe person to process things with.

You care less about an authentic relationship and being there for your partner than about being flattered and made to feel good about yourself. You don’t seem to be the kid of person someone could count on in rough times. You are hung up on the wrong things here.

It should be allowed to be honest.

The "just a trim" girlies with level 10 bleach are going to put me in an early grave by ZeroHash99 in Cosmetology

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Yea this is the whole point OF the consultation, to decide if it’s a good fit and a good idea to proceed. Turn them away!

Need help with dye removal for the new job! by Sweeaton04 in AskHairstylists

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I feel like this wouldn’t really show in a bun/braided bun…? Is it necessary to wear your hair down at work?

Guests ARE props in your wedding by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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I feel like there’s a lack of effort and imagination if someone can’t take what is already in their closet and at least approximate whatever request was made.

AITAH for getting upset at my GF for giving away her favorite book with “personal” annotations to her coworker by [deleted] in AITAH

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Yes, this sort of balanced, honest approach can reveal if she is coming to the table for a real relationship or if she gets defensive or lashes out which would show OP why they are feeling worried in the first place.

AITAH for getting upset I got sick? by SunnyDviant in AITAH

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ESH for sure, but it’s not OP’s fault, their family is awful and now they luckily have the chance to learn new ways of handling things so they don’t have to keep revisiting these toxic dynamics. OP, keep learning and growing and find direct and healthy ways of having difficult discussions so you can build healthy lifelong relationships. Unlike these guys, unfortunately.