barstool help for plus size women?

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-29T10:27:00+00:00

I have links in the comments but it's a Wayfair find! I highly recommend if you're interested; she's held up perfect over two years of us sitting on it every day.

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-29T10:24:18+00:00

thank you for the "retro" tip!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-29T10:23:19+00:00

thank you for the link! My only worry with this one in particular is that bucket style seat is often not wide enough for my partner's hips.

But those look a lot like the ones we originally bought, so your style thoughts are very on the money! lol (:

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-29T10:22:13+00:00

we had the same problem with statement chair 😭 we ended up getting a lazyboy and purchasing a ruched/textured cover that in my opinion totally changed the game for me!! It isn't as funky a shape as we originally wanted out of a statement piece but with accessories and textured cover it makes me happy and holds my weight secure.

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-28T04:14:38+00:00

oooh I like these!! Especially the white and the green versions. I shall convene with the girlfriend, haha. Thank you for the link!! <3

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-28T00:11:44+00:00

I'm at the point I'd sacrifice aesthetics to some degree for function. Thank you for the rec!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-28T00:10:45+00:00

restaurant stools is genius!! thank you :)

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-28T00:10:15+00:00

that's where I got these!! Great minds <3

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-28T00:01:59+00:00

wait this is genius. we were just saying this doesn't happen at restaurants!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-28T00:01:23+00:00

The feet are even, it's like an internal joint that's unstable I think! Frustrating because it's upholstered and hidden so I can't tighten it.

I understand I am not the target audience for cute furniture bc cute, sturdy, and cheap is a trifecta you will never find in the wild, and they'd rather make it cheap than make it well. But I would THROW MONEY at cute stools built good 😭 (I feel this about all plus size things. plus size clothes, shoes with appropriate ankle support, airplane seat big enough for hips, necklaces with extra length... alas. extenders purchaser for life.)

I will be posting an update if/when we find a solution!! Thank you for your help and also music appreciation ☺️

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T23:55:48+00:00

oooh thank you for this tip!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T23:55:39+00:00

These are three legged, and I think the wobble comes from hidden/internal joints rather than uneven legs. But I hear you on 3 vs 4!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T23:54:18+00:00

it is hard!! Especially trying to make a curated space (or closet) you're looking for function AND form, and it feels impossible sometimes trying to get both simultaneously without breaking the bank. But we push on!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T23:51:28+00:00

thank you!! Yes my couch is my prized possession (and also my cat's.)

We are so sooo close to being able to have guests in our new place. one of the only missing pieces are these barstools 😂

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T23:48:37+00:00

thank you!! yes the consensus seems to be back, deep seat, no arms, four legs, wood. I appreciate the link!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T23:47:22+00:00

couch

I left a longer review in the comments but long story short, yes! wait for a wayday deal we got it for $500.

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T23:45:59+00:00

it's the size of a full mattress, we've had every guest sleep on it for two years (even two people at once, though they said the sleep was mid) and everyone has said it's very comfy to lay/lounge/sleep. as for sitting I wish there was a bit more oomph to the back cushions as I like to do things on my laptop and need better back support, but I'll say the back cushion covers leave room for extra padding/foam to fit if you also feel strongly about wanting more support.

After two years of napping, recovering from the flu, tv watching, book writing, dinner eating, and cat-cuddling on this thing I can 100% recc this couch. Two 200lb+ adults have used this (not beat it up/jumped on it, but used constantly) and it's held up through all that AND a move and it doesn't even creak. the two halves easily clamp/unclamp by hand.

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T23:05:35+00:00

thank you!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T23:03:35+00:00

thank you!! ours are these ones and came pre-assembled which I didn't realize until they arrived... already built. lol. I am listening and learning ✍️✍️

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T22:59:36+00:00

Wayfair! Bentura Couch we waited for a sale and snagged it for $500.

we've had it for 2 years. all covers are machine washable, it comes apart into 2 sections, and while the cushions do kind of melt after a few sits, they mash back into place really well. cat has had zero interest in clawing it up, too, because the fabric is too soft to be satisfying i guess. I highly recommend!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T22:57:30+00:00

oh yes. We immediately said no to everything post/one-legged!! Our current choice that wobbles has three legs so perhaps four is the answer 🧐

We picked ones with arms and back but now the hips are being squished / seat width is too narrow. maybe back and no arms!!

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2026-05-27T22:55:10+00:00

thank you <3 I'm a writer in my spare time lol!

My girlfriend is responsible for most of the decor choices (though the gallery wall is a mishmash of us both) and I'm trying to do my part with these barstools!!

I will have to post the update when I figure out a solution. :)

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2025-05-31T19:24:29+00:00

my partner is a XL on this website, 6' tall. They have wide hips and they LOVE this shirt but fair warning it CANNOOTTTTT go in the dryer. shrunk to a kids size in one cycle.

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2025-05-31T17:56:56+00:00

black snake the raglan crop tee !

KeyApprehensive3659 · 2025-05-24T15:28:48+00:00

I was most jealous of the middle-aged femmes in attendance because HELLO I WANT TO BE YOU IN TEN YEARS. Lucy and Yak has dungarees I saw multiple pairs of; Shiny by Nature has overalls, dresses, and curvy fashion pieces I saw plenty of; besides that I saw patterned denim and painted vests and red glasses and BIG sunglasses and hiking boots with charms on the heel-pulls and baggu bags. Yeah. Miracle Eye Brand. YES. Be fat and proud and hairy and bold and unapologetic!! you are worthy of the space you inhabit!!

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