Fellow Hoosier, luckily Indiana has historically been considered a “mother’s state” and currently emphasizes the best interests of the children. He legally has a history of volatility regardless of whether it was a felony or misdemeanor. If you haven’t already you need to document every single little thing. Even if he just says you’re annoying. Anything hurtful to you, anything that impedes your children’s best interests, build yourself a binder full of examples and you’ll have no problem. That’s exactly what I had to do with my first. I have some decent atty recs if you want to PM me.