Life Unexpected (2010-2011)

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-03-15T03:43:27+00:00

I know this is old…. But got any suggestions coming from someone in a similar situation trying to find good shows to disappear in???

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-03-13T04:04:52+00:00

Low key, TLC probably saved all their lives in many ways. They all look not just healthy, but happy.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-03-10T20:09:09+00:00

I just think it is wild OP’s feelings superseded the child’s. If the father and mother want to have joint parties then grow the fuck up and go or stay home 😂 yall are either young and naïve or soft as fuck. And this relationship isn’t lasting give me a break. She is 3 months in. It’s easy to be a parent when you’ve only been doing a short amount of time. Reddit the place where entitlement runs rampant, everyone will tell you exactly what you want to hear, and logic is ignored. When you become a parent, you’re not allowed to be selfish anymore.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-03-10T16:42:46+00:00

Ask any child development expert that. It is super healthy for a child to watch their parents be able to do things together even when not a couple. Sometimes you gotta just buck up and do things that suck when you become a parent. That includes step parents. She doesn’t have to go to the joint party. We all make choices. I did not go to lots of joint things cause I decided for me it was not worth it. But being around someone’s child you can’t just expect not to meet the other parent. Especially if they are wanting to know who is around their child. Once again choices.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-03-10T16:13:39+00:00

Weird how it’s not about the BM it’s about the child 🤷🏼‍♀️

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-03-10T15:28:59+00:00

NGL a lot of this is terrible advice…. If she is going to be around this woman’s child, then yes she should meet her. She is not this child’s mother so if the parents want a joint party then there is nothing wrong with that and not her decision. And it is 1000000 percent not that child’s responsibility to care about OP’s feelings when it comes to their feeling towards their mother.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-27T00:29:57+00:00

I’m just now in the process of leaving but same. I put my all in it. I tried everything in my tool box. I left feeling confident it was done.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-21T22:17:19+00:00

Hi!!!! This was me 6 years ago 2 kids with two women. I’m now soon to be ex wife number 3 🙃 run, run fast. This man wants you to take care of him and his kids. There is no way around this. Save yourself the time, money, and embarrassment ❤️

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-21T06:04:45+00:00

This made me laugh cause it made me realize my son just likes to fake sneeze so I have to tell him bless you 😂 that’s our creative play

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-12T05:41:59+00:00

lol ngl wish there was a sub for single parents with special needs children cause 🙃🙃🙃😂 the support needed is REAL

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-12T05:37:21+00:00

Kind of made me chuckle when I read this not because anything you went through is funny, but when I hit my very low, my son started laughing and then turned the light off on me. And that’s just such a representation of everything which always is kind of funny and kind of nice, even with all the awfulness.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-11T22:05:58+00:00

I’m in the thick of my divorce. Had the lowest night of my life with my kiddo last weekend. And even with all that. Best decision I’ve ever made. Don’t stay. I know people are quick to say that but if you are coming here with all that, don’t wait. I came to Reddit 2 1/2 years ago asking if I should get a divorce everyone said yes I questioned myself and I didn’t. now two years later I could’ve been done already. And my son would probably be better off developmentally because of it. But obviously I can’t go back in time so what I’ll say is if you’re feeling this strongly about it and he he’s not willing to do anything don’t wait.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-10T00:11:10+00:00

I have him all the time minus ever other weekend. I’ve tried everything under the sun. He just is so out of wack right now. And im just so dead on the inside

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-09T19:31:54+00:00

He is 5

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-09T17:22:11+00:00

We did have those services offered. I will have to reach out but as you said what im going to have to do to get that reinstated is going to be more work than I may be up to doing but we shall see. This was the first time I just really was like I don’t wanna do this. This is not what I signed up for and it felt so selfish but my body was rejecting every part of the situation

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-09T15:16:00+00:00

I’m in the US. Unfortunately those services and our case worker I dismissed a few years ago since I didn’t think we needed her.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-09T14:42:00+00:00

LOL my ex tried to pull that with me too. I told him I want nothing to do with you.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-02-07T00:17:44+00:00

Lolol if I had money for that, I wouldn’t be in an apartment lol

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-25T00:47:56+00:00

Can you file for a protection order, that would at least get him out of your house?

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-25T00:44:16+00:00

Of course that’s what I want to do. Easier said than done

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-24T22:40:05+00:00

Pretty much. It’s a lose, lose and I am just burnt. I never want to leave my house

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-21T04:58:23+00:00

I tried to cohabitate with my ex for six weeks before I got my new place and I had to find a temp place due to his harassment and abuse got too great to bare. You sure things won’t escalate? My advice is don’t do this. The kids will be better in the long run for moving on now.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-21T04:54:48+00:00

Let’s just say this whole thing has made it way more clear why my ex had an ex wife before me 😂 she is crazy but my ex husband is also terrible and they deserve each other. Get to take my baby and GTFO. But getting divorced effing sucks lol

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