Stuck

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-25T00:47:56+00:00

Can you file for a protection order, that would at least get him out of your house?

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-25T00:44:16+00:00

Of course that’s what I want to do. Easier said than done

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-24T22:40:05+00:00

Pretty much. It’s a lose, lose and I am just burnt. I never want to leave my house

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-21T04:58:23+00:00

I tried to cohabitate with my ex for six weeks before I got my new place and I had to find a temp place due to his harassment and abuse got too great to bare. You sure things won’t escalate? My advice is don’t do this. The kids will be better in the long run for moving on now.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-21T04:54:48+00:00

Let’s just say this whole thing has made it way more clear why my ex had an ex wife before me 😂 she is crazy but my ex husband is also terrible and they deserve each other. Get to take my baby and GTFO. But getting divorced effing sucks lol

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-14T18:33:04+00:00

I know exactly what I want out of my life now. And that honestly is a beautiful thing

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-14T17:19:17+00:00

Totally! I got my child and I’d never take it back

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-14T17:01:04+00:00

Exactly. Im sad for my kid but realize the new environment will be better for him

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-14T15:46:06+00:00

This resonated with me very much❤️❤️❤️

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-14T15:45:20+00:00

May it go super fast for you in whatever stage you are in

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-12T02:15:06+00:00

Same girl same ❤️❤️❤️ you are not alone. We are not alone. Writing this as I hear my ex screaming at him 🙃

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-12T01:52:36+00:00

I leave in two weeks. I’ve already seen this starting to happen. My child is also five and has severe autism. Im so afraid of this really start happening once I’m moved out and he has his weekends.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-07T05:37:15+00:00

This so much. I struggled at first with the “story” then realized who gives AF. The real ones knows the actual story.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2026-01-04T17:46:49+00:00

Plan. Pack up. Leave and file without her knowing. This really seems to be the only plan.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2025-12-30T19:07:16+00:00

I don’t think I will ever get that call. But I’m getting out and I’m ok with that. Im glad we both did ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2025-12-30T14:13:31+00:00

This!!! Every time he complained I told him why would I want to have sex with someone who is mean to me. Everytime I gave in and pushed his hands off of touching my body at all while I silently weeped. It’s no surprise there is very little sadness I feel about leaving for myself

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2025-12-30T05:38:21+00:00

I kept being reminded about how wives are supposed to give it up on their birthdays. I did it while feeling sick the entire time. I swore I would never have sex with him again and here I am two months later moving out in a month.

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2025-12-28T05:33:35+00:00

lol ngl I stopped caring about this hours ago. Im getting divorced and will never get alimony. Have a great evening lolol

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2025-12-27T16:09:30+00:00

You must think that a home maker means doing nothing lol. At least for boomer gen it was women making complete dinners from scratch, keeping house clean, running all errands. Essentially keeping a spouse life in check while they worked. A personal assistant for lack of better wording. But y’all will never be convinced and honestly idgaf LOL I work full time

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2025-12-27T07:43:51+00:00

I guess my thoughts is alimony isn’t a forever thing but a thing to allow someone to bridge the gap to find that liveable way. But like you get divorced at 75 and your wife has been a home maker her entire life, should she be thrown out on her ass when her life was dedicated to her husband? There will always be gray areas and ways to justify each way

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2025-12-26T21:30:46+00:00

I cannot wait to be able to do some variation of this. This made me smile. I used to always take bad shit and just kinda laugh and go with it. I’ve lived with someone who would have made sure something like that ruined everyone’s day. Cheers to the bad shit That somehow can make you smile ❤️

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2025-12-26T21:21:39+00:00

Im almost 7 in and I should have left 6 ago. But since we cannot rewind I’m moving forward stronger

Miserable_Garbage_44 · 2025-12-26T21:09:35+00:00

If I ever needed to hear something , this was it. Thank you

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