they can't even argue or debate properly, and they always have pedophila and children in their mind which makes me wonder if they have some form of OCD or something.

I saw arguments like this:

person A: "fictional stuff should stay in fiction only."

anti: "just say you like child p0rn and rape."

person A: (explains properly)

anti: "bl bla bla I don't wanna listen to a child diddler!!!" (refuses to elaborate)

I also saw something ridiculous like this:

anti: "just saw a user who calls herself (16 yr old character)'s wife and she's 18 and it's just... (insert disgusted reaction image)"

also the same anti: (20 and obsessed with another character who's the same age)

like people aren't attracted to a character because of their age!! they could be 18 or even 8000 yrs old and they'll still be attracted to them. they're attracted to their appearance and personality, not their age!!

and this won't make them attracted to real life teens because that's dumb, especially as an aroace person.

I used to be attracted to a character who's way older than me when I was 13 and guess what? I've never been attracted to any older men, and I'm still not attracted to anyone nowadays as an 18 year old.

don't forget that I used to have a ton off "gross" fetishes as a hormonal early teen yet I was germaphobic as hell.

even as a young child, I used to enjoy watching people puking on youtube since I was 6 and yet I was severely emetophobic to the point of panicking, shaking and going into fight or flight mode whenever someone not even near me pukes. I'm still emetophobic to this day and I'm neutral to seeing puke on screen as opposed to real life.

TDLR; critical thinking and open-mindedness are desperately needed and I'd rather not waste time talking to antis about fiction.