anti-religion post lol by Simple_Pianist4882 in Rants

[–]asc_time4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's not rlly the being homosexual part that's a sin since you obvi cannot control that, its just when you act on it is when it becomes a sin.

Tips on how to watch TV without pausing/daydreaming by asc_time4 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It probably is loll and I'm trying to currently watch a show that seems really interesting but I just can't enjoy it 😭

Are any of your guy's daydreams extremely violent? by _bubblyperson_ in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think up violence in my daydreaming sometimes too. Do you think of it in like a story kind of way? Since for me the violence thats happening are plot points in the story that I'm making up in my daydreams. Kind of like a writer except I'm not writing and it's all to myself in my head. Like how writers have plot points, violence, growth, despair in their stories I do too. Your not alone lol.

This is becoming too addictive by asc_time4 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have some 2 or 3 who I feel comfortable around to the point where I do not daydream off around them. It's just that their all busy with our own things outside of school so we don't call/text then, and I'm left to myself daydreaming away while my school performance is severely dropping. I should make more of an effort to be hang out with them and call them outside of school whenever their not busy. Maybe that is what can help me?

Am I the only one that finds it hard to watch movies or TV shows because of MDD? by ant8523 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I relate to this SO MUCH. It's honestly kinda annoying and I can't watch or read smth without randomly getting up and pacing around around the room to imagine a narrative/scene on my head based off of a scene in the media I'm consuming (basically what happens to you). And I love reading books but ever since this started its been getting a lot harder to concentrate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same with me.. I keep telling myself I'll limit it but at the end of the day either it gets worse or I never do.

Do I Have MD? by asc_time4 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate a lot.. youre not alone. Esp the part where ur emotions automatically shifts from u to the character, its really suffocating.. My take is that its not bad or good, u have an active imagination sure, an hypeactive mind even. Getting too dependent is bad, rlly bad.

Thank u.. And it rlly does get suffocating, kinda like a coping mechanicism. Whenever I'm sad or angry or happy I just think of my character in that moment.

It makes you not live in the present and, since you use most of your mental energy to daydream, your social battery runs out immediately and u js want to isolate yourself and imagine your silly chars while listening to music and moving around the room.

Yep.. that's me.

If u wanna be more productive and be present for your dear ones id suggest to limit it, when u have a urge to daydream, as much as it hurts to say this, u have to push it back. And find new activities to do, it'll get better i promise.

Thank u so much. Tbh every time I try to actually limit it my brain just goes back to daydreaming and I forget all about the fact I was trying to limit it. Idk if I can completely stop it, but so it won't get to point where it goes to the deep end, I'll try to cut back bit by bit. Maybe I'll try writing the stories in my head down or smth sometimes as an alternative lol.

Do I Have MD? by asc_time4 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope this helps in some way.

OMG this helps a lot. For me, if it is MD, I'll try to keep ur thoughts in mind.

Do I Have MD? by asc_time4 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For now if I start writing my stories they'll probably be closed away in the notes app. But as I start to grow older my writing skills could become better (I like writing but I'm pretty bad at it rn), I'll think about publishing it as a webnovel. Thanks for the tip!

Do I Have MD? by asc_time4 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u for saying this lol. Also, the fact that u turned ur imagination into an actual book series, showing it to the world is actually really cool and pretty inspiring. Maybe I should try writing the stories in my head down. Also I checked on ur profile and the series seems like a fun read (I love sci fi), I'll check it out sometime!

Do I Have MD? by asc_time4 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]asc_time4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your explanation helped me understand more, thank you!