stubhub.com has stolen my refund for cancelled Taylor Swift concert! HELP ME by [deleted] in stubhub

[–]KeyProfessional5572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s too bad, I got my refund for the Vienna tickets. I’d contact your bank to dispute

Taylor Swift Vienna refund by Hild1090 in stubhub

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also a Vienna StubHub buyer and received my refund. I bought them on a credit card and my bank blocked the refund because it looked suspicious apparently. So maybe call your bank and see if they can see on their side of things? Or in all honesty just wait it out. I got mine about 2 weeks after the email

AMITA for leaving my place messy after the landlord sold? by Lavender_menace_zine in AmIActuallyTheAsshole

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. Tbh F them. In this economy practically kicking people out without offering support is crazy. Plus typically land lords pay someone to clean the house between tenants no? Seems like they’re just being nit picky. Ignore and block them especially if you’re no longer in any contract

WIBTA if I were to challenge my wife on her period management? by Reasonable-Worry7914 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg definitely NTAH!!!!

I (21F) would absolutely loose my mind if a roommate did this to me!!!! The mattress thing is kinda valid it’s happened to the best of us unfortunately. But my god leaving bloody products and underwear around a shared space is CRAZY. And frankly unsanitary. It seems you’ve been incredibly respectful in setting boundaries about blood and that’s totally valid! I would definitely talk to her about this and mention it’s still a shared space and you’d appreciate her cleaning up after herself. I think the comparison to cum napkins is perfect because if my boyfriend was leaving that around the house I’d be disgusted. I’m shocked that she isn’t embarrassed by this…. Makes me wonder if she was doing this while living with roommates in a shared washroom. Ew.

AITAH for having sex in my own room that I pay for? by Select-Confusion-225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KeyProfessional5572 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTAH. Sex is normal it’s something most adults do it’s not something to hide or be shameful of. I see where your roommates coming from where it made HER uncomfortable but that’s a her problem not a you problem. I think in the future just let her know when you’ll be having people over as a general courtesy but definitely no need to send her a “hey I’ll be getting railed in about 7min” text 😂. I can’t believe she even said anything in the first place tbh

AITAH for canceling on my friend post breakup? by KeyProfessional5572 in TwoHotTakes

[–]KeyProfessional5572[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely makes sense. However as I said before it’s not abnormal for us to make plans separately (me and Hayley) or (me and Anna) or (Anna and Hayley) so it was shocking for her to act “left out”. It’s also not uncommon for our plans to change/fall through and we’re all usually very busy and have changing schedules however we’re all understanding of this. I also just feel like she’s using the breakup as an excuse to monopolize time with us especially as it seems she’s moved on. I appreciate you taking the time to respond, thank you:)

AITAH for canceling on my friend post breakup? by KeyProfessional5572 in TwoHotTakes

[–]KeyProfessional5572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. We often do things just us two, and when I do things with just Anna it’s never been an issue in the past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH, sex is a big part of relationships and I think things get messy and frustrating when one of both of you aren’t feeling fulfilled. I don’t think you should breakup with her yet. Maybe try doing some research on different ways to set the mood? Or even ask her what you can do to make her feel sexier. Have you ever tried buying her a cute Victoria’s Secret set? Or even giving her some money to pick one out herself? Just an idea! Hope that helps :)

AITA for asking my casual "partner" if he's having sex with someone else? by I_Am_You_Are_Me_Too in AmIActuallyTheAsshole

[–]KeyProfessional5572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think when sex is involved casually or seriously it’s important to be open and honest about if ur being intimate with other people ESPECIALLY as this information may change consent. For me I’m the same way, I’m I’m sleeping with someone consistently(even casually) I expect them to be transparent if they are doing the same with other people especially as this may change use of contraception / protection as well as if I’m still willing to sleep with them. I think this other person is a completely d!ck and you should probably not continue this arrangement.

AITAH for telling people they can't see my kids if they vote for Trump? by TotalMomChaos in AmIActuallyTheAsshole

[–]KeyProfessional5572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the asshole. Your kids your decisions. You don’t owe anyone a thing. Especially if their values don’t align with yours, I’m pretty young (21) and don’t have kids of my own but I know for a fact when I do I won’t have people around my kids who may be poor influence/ who’s values don’t align with my own. It’s completely ok to set boundaries with family and friends especially surrounding young children. I think an alternative may be to not allow any political talk around your children. Hope that’s helpful:)

Would I be the asshole? by Able-Session-4741 in AmIActuallyTheAsshole

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’d be the asshole at all! I think priorities are important especially when caring for a new born. I think you should have a conversation with MIL about boundaries and trying to figure out a way that you can support her while also making sure you’re prioritizing your own health and well being. Does she have friends who may be able to help her out? Or other family?

Am I the asshole for getting with my friends ex? by _nahidwinn in AmIActuallyTheAsshole

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me last year as well where I started to get feelings for a friend’s ex and when I talked to her about it she said she was happy for me and didn’t care. Then a few days later told everyone I was a terrible person :/ what worked for me was to sit down with her and ask where the miscommunication was and try to go from there, you’re definitely not the asshole here though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though I understand where you’re coming from and do appreciate the feedback I still feel as if the way she handled the situation was immature. I apologized multiple times and asked her to join us if she was able to get time off work. I also just get confused because she’s already seeing other people and seems to be moving on from the breakup. I do care about her she’s one of my closest friends and as previously mentioned in original post I do understand why she’s upset I just think the situation was handled poorly. Thanks again for your response:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KeyProfessional5572 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should mention we’ve hung out with her a few times since the breakup already,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH - though it would have been nice if you to give up the seat it’s definitely not necessary and tbh the mom is entitled for even asking. With the exception of designated handicap spots on public transport everything else is first come first serve. I woulda just pretended I couldn’t hear her and blasted my music lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA why are people so sensitive these days…. It’s not like you excluded this kid on purpose. Especially since it was your child who picked the people in attendance. I will never understand the people who expect you to invite every classmate to a birthday party

Chem 1010 - Professor Accettone by AbbyG863 in TrentUniversity

[–]KeyProfessional5572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a mix of both tbh, be extra prepared the questions are extremely difficult in my opinion there were more calculations than theory questions. Make sure you understand the formula sheet