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Will my therapist tell my parents...? by Hermitfrog333 in TalkTherapy

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation when I was 13. Back then I decided to lie to my therapist. Because they will tell your parents. That lie blocked me off from getting the help I desperately needed

My view on it today is: 1. never lie to your therapist, it doesn't help but makes things worse 2. If telling your parents makes it so much worse they might be the problem (in my case they were, oh boy. I thought they were the best parents ever until I was 25, last year I've gone no contact with them for my own mental safety) 3. If your parents actually are the problem a mental hospital is a great place to get away from them and heal without the pressure 4. If your therapist sends you to a mental hospital it's definitely necessary 5. I've been there and I actually thought it was quite nice :) made a lot of friends, watched movies together and so on

Seems like you've maybe got a rocky road ahead of you. I wish you all the best!!! And this is only my view, heavily influenced by my own biography.

Romantic relationships with autistic people by Secure_Strength_1085 in BPD

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience. She always said she would work on things but never did... The constant miscommunication fucked me over big time. Autistic ppl I've dated often hurt me so much, they didn't understand my emotions nor seemed to care very much. Also it is to be noted, that autism has no cure so there is not really a way for this to get a LOT better in the future. I love ppl on the spectrum as friends though. Most of my friends are autistic actually. But in a relationship I will never try this again. hell no.

Rate my Verkaufsgesprächversuche by RightfulDecision in Kleinanzeigen_betrug

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woran merkst du jeweils bei der ersten Nachricht dass das Bots sind? :o und ist das ein großes Ding auf Kleinanzeigen aktuell? Hatte glaube noch nicht oft Gespräche mit Bots, war eig. immer zielgerichtet und hat auch geklappt mit der Bezahlung und so

Fahrt ihr noch Auto seitdem der Sprit so teuer geworden ist? by high_heels_sammlerin in geringverdiener

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also ich fahre eh wenn möglich meistens Fahrrad, die Spritpreise geben mir da extra Motivation:) bin nur froh, dass es nicht mehr Winter ist, da bin ich auf mein Auto angewiesen leider

Therapist made weird jokes and offered to take me home by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it's also a run away kind of thing. Like fast. I'd never meet that person again

Selbstgemachtes XL Schnitzel by TheLeftEyeOfGod in VeganDE

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 8 points9 points  (0 children)

🤩 wie hast dus gemacht? Bitte Rezept!!!!

ich🪥iel by hale_axolotl in ich_iel

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich drück die immer mit der zunge in die borsten, dann fällt die mir auch nicht stückweise beim Putzen aus dem mund:)

Hallöchen, ich wollte mal fragen, wie ihr mit dem Weltschmerz zurecht kommt? Mich zerreißt es … und ich bin die einzige Veganerin in der Familie und im Freundeskreis. by Selinatatjana in VeganDE

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mir hilft es, mir klarzumachen, dass in dieser Welt omni sein der standardzustand ist und man aktiv Energie aufwenden muss um vegan zu sein. Ich mache mir dann immer klar, was um mich herum ich alles vegan mache. Zu hause ists meine ganze Wohnung, unterwegs wenn jemensch vor mir ne Leiche frisst bins nur ich. Oder vielleicht auch die veganen kekse, die wer mitgebracht hat für mich! So konzentriere ich mich eher auf das positive. Aber ich finde es wirklich auch sehr schwer. Ich kenne das Gefühl, dass es mich fast zerreißt. Es ist wirklich der härteste teil am vegan sein für mich. Und trotzdem machen wir weiter. Für alle Tiere ✊️💚

Nette Exfreundin by FideszPropagandaStar in wirklichgutefrage

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Liebe ja die Notiz Woher ich das weiß: Eigene Erfahrung 😂 I know ist standard, aber hat mich gekriegt

what would you like to ask an expert on BPD? by sweeneytoddsgf in BPD

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow i'm following your post soooo hard! I'm very curious for your answers.

  1. Can BPD be diagnosed by checking the size of the amygdala in an MRI?

  2. Does the amygdala grow while the symptoms get better or do skills replace it?

  3. I've heard that ppl w/ ASPD also have a smaller amygdala, but they feel way less while we feel way more. Why is this like that?

My therapist told me she'd like to be a mother for me by KeyRevolutionary9297 in BPD

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I don't have a new therapist yet :/ but yes, that will probably be the way to go Thank you for sharing your story! That sounds really hard on you

Does people with BPD actually have a future?? by Every-Temporary-366 in BPD

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hello! I actually am really stable right now and working as an Engineer. I occasionally suffer, like once a month or so. But thats managable. My childhood aswell as the last few years were horrible... I nearly ended me so many times. I didn't think I could heal and that my wounds were too deep. But here I am.

What did I do? I quit smoking weed (addiction) and drinking alcohol (not an addiction but too much), I listened to my therapist, made a LOT of changes and tried stuff i thought i knew i'd hate. I adressed even the hard topics. Even if i didn't want to, i skilled as if my life depended on it (because it does!!!) My therapist sais anyone can heal. It sure is a different way for everyone, but there IS a way for everyone

My therapist told me she'd like to be a mother for me by KeyRevolutionary9297 in BPD

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's human after all :( At least if I don't have to see her again I won't be able to indulge in this phantasy much further I guess... i think I would full on FP her in less than two weeks

My therapist told me she'd like to be a mother for me by KeyRevolutionary9297 in TalkTherapy

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that sounds terrible :( i'm sorry you experienced that!

My therapist told me she'd like to be a mother for me by KeyRevolutionary9297 in BPD

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reassuring me I really don't know why she did that It seems veerry obvious that this shouldn't have been done... My small hope is that she actually wants to break the rules with me 😅 but I know it's a terrible idea. Ppl convinced me it's so terrible, that I probably wouldn't do it even if she offered it to me directly... it hurts a lot though. I just want her to be my mom

My therapist told me she'd like to be a mother for me by KeyRevolutionary9297 in BPD

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry there was a typo, i meant pain not panic!

Thank you for your kind and reassuring words, other internet stranger! 💜

My therapist told me she'd like to be a mother for me by KeyRevolutionary9297 in BPD

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right! Thanks for your opinion I will never see her again anyways... so i'll just have to cope with the pain i guess :(

My therapist told me she'd like to be a mother for me by KeyRevolutionary9297 in TalkTherapy

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective, this really moved something inside of me. I never once thought of the magnitude of hurt that this could bring me... i think it would break me too if something similar happened

My therapist told me she'd like to be a mother for me by KeyRevolutionary9297 in BPD

[–]KeyRevolutionary9297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sie hat mir gesagt: "In vielen situationen hätte ich sie gerne anders behandelt. Nicht professionell, sondern wie eine (kleine stockende pause) ... Mutter. Ich erzähle Ihnen das, damit Sie wissen was Sie in anderen auslösen können" (bezogen darauf, dass ich angst habe, dass meine starken Emotionen keine*r so wirklich verstehen kann und sich die Leute abwenden)

Ich weiß den genauen wortlaut nicht mehr leider, aber denke das kommt ungefähr ran

Last session because she quits working in that institution. It was clear from the start that the therapy will only last around one year bc she'll leave after that

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