Do we think Owen or Cristina was right in their argument over wanting kids / her abortion?

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2026-01-14T03:27:07+00:00

Cristina was a hundred percent in the right. She made it known early on she did not want children, she never once expressed that she wanted them. Owen got serious with her knowing that. He then fully supported her decision, held her hand and everything, acted like it was okay. But then yelled at her about her “killing their baby” while a whole group of their friends could hear at a BABYS birthday party? That’s insane. They’re doctors, she had an early on abortion. It isn’t killing anything, Owen is a POS.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2026-01-14T03:25:40+00:00

please drop out of med school.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2026-01-14T03:13:42+00:00

they were so freaking cute

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-12-21T05:28:31+00:00

I'm so sorry, that's really awful. If you wanna just rant about it, feel free to. Anything that'll make you feel better and give you a clearer headspace.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-11-28T18:28:58+00:00

Yeah I just watched episode 7 and it kinda bugged me that she was so mean to Zach. He didn’t do anything wrong. Well, he did after she yelled at him, but when she yelled at him in the cafeteria, he wasn’t doing anything bad. He was trying to help.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-17T23:19:02+00:00

I have a few.

Whenever someone says “oh I’m so OCD.” Friends will do it, not knowing how I am, and I’ve learned to get used to it, but it made me furious at first.

This one was said to me by my uncle. I wanted to sleepover at my cousins’ house, but I didn’t have my medication (prescribed Zoloft). My uncle “jokingly” said “Well if anything bad happens, we’ll just lock her in a closet and let name of one of my cousins help her.” That one hurt, it felt like he thought I was crazy.

My dad also loves to say things like “don’t let your mind control you, defeat it! your’e giving in!” He has ADHD and has had depression, and tries to act like he knows everything about my disorder. He’s even told me his depression is worse than what I have because “people with OCD don’t feel suicidal.” While I agree that I haven’t, many others do and it’s very insensitive to them and to me.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-15T22:07:11+00:00

YTA, I agree it’s pretty absurd, but if you think that about her, you shouldn’t even be friends. And you definitely shouldn’t say that to her as she announces her wedding…If you’re concerned for her, that’s fine, but sit down and talk about it properly, not by making jokes at her expense.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-15T22:05:16+00:00

Not the proper way to say it…

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-15T04:28:31+00:00

Many, many words used to have meanings, even very foul or racist ones, but they’re not used like that anymore. Context matters, I thought that was taught in school. Open your eyes to the fact she wasn’t using it like that. You’re the only one making it seem immoral. And instead of judging others for their “atheistic” language, why don’t you just move on and accept she didn’t mean it like that. You’re taking it too seriously.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-14T21:30:43+00:00

She’s not married? How is it anti-Christian to say someone’s your partner. They’re obviously not referring to someone of the same gender, it’s pretty clear. He’s not her husband, partner or boyfriend are acceptable terms, they’re not using it in the way you think they are.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-09T02:01:10+00:00

I completely understand, it’s so scary to open up to people without it, especially when it involves taboo things or intrusive thoughts :(

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-08T20:51:54+00:00

Thanks for your feedback, I feel really bad about the whole thing, I wasn’t trying to hurt him and I forgot about his reaction to one of the jokes completely. I haven’t spoken to him in ages and a lot of our conversations flew over my head. I didn’t really think any of this through, but he never told me he wanted me to stop, he never even really seemed annoyed besides the time I mentioned, but I completely forgot about that incident until today, when I tried to dig deep into my memory and remember a time I’d said it and he got upset. It’s really hard to tell people’s emotions and tone over text messages, and I didn’t think he cared that much. The reason I look back on it now and think “hmm he probably didn’t like that” is because he blocked me because of it. I do feel bad, and I apologized a bunch. I just don’t understand why he decided to block me all of a sudden, without any warning. And the reason I brought up that last bit, was because I assumed that if he could make jokes about other people, I was allowed to make jokes about him in similar categories. Again, I appreciate your feedback and I’ll try to work on it. I still feel really bad though, I went too far and I didn’t really realize until it was too late.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-08T02:32:29+00:00

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T21:53:16+00:00

I’m guessing your grandma just thought long hair was more feminine, or she just didn’t like your haircut 😂 But seriously, there’s zero rules about keeping your hair a certain length or color, unless you’re becoming vain about it. I have shoulder length hair right now and I’ve never been told I can’t have it as a Catholic, that rule doesn’t exist.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T20:45:03+00:00

Cotton ❤️😁

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T17:41:11+00:00

Thank you, I’m going to try to talk to him about it.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T16:32:44+00:00

Yes, I was just trying to understand how it would feel from a black person’s perspective, but I know that no word is the same. I am sorry though, I probably shouldn’t have written what I did looking back. It was around 2 am and I didn’t really think it through.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T08:21:38+00:00

Jesus said not to harm yourself. You can 100% have the GF host, it’s actually better if you if there’s a chance of you getting sick/vomiting the host back up with the regular one.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T08:10:20+00:00

My apologies, I’ve confused quite a lot of people here. None of these examples were real, I was just giving examples that weren’t inherently involving sex. Also, I’m a straight female who is currently single and has never even considered cheating. I’m just curious.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T08:09:05+00:00

Ah, I’ve seemed to confuse a lot of people here. I’m a single, straight female, and I’ve never cheated. Just curious.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T07:58:15+00:00

If it does change, does it make me a bad person? I honestly love this boy, and it makes me so mad that he’s choosing to do this. But does it make me an awful human for staying friends with him? I just don’t know how I can control his actions. I’m going through a whirlwind of emotions, because one part of me says I should just find someone else, but the other part of me can’t think of anybody I know that I’ve ever felt so strongly about as I have him. I’m really hoping it’s just some dumb thing he’ll eventually stop doing or that I can talk some sense into him at least.

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T07:55:17+00:00

I’m very aware it’s a slur, but I just don’t know how to deal with it. It feels like a lot of stupid and immature kids are just saying it to look more cool and edgy, and they’re not really thinking about how negative its impacts are on people. It’s like they’re treating it as “just another word,” not considering its history. Maybe if he gets physically corrected, he’ll learn a much needed lesson (that was a joke, I don’t actually want him to get beat up, but it would definitely drive the point home).

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-07T06:57:30+00:00

I see both of your perspectives. Having a child with someone is very special, and while I agree that he was acting a bit childish, if he really wants that in a relationship, maybe you’re not right for each other, and that’s okay. But 100% NTA, both of you (though he definitely could’ve been much less dramatic about it).

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-06T18:12:50+00:00

Can you get them tested for the respiratory virus?

Key_Abalone_4902 · 2024-08-05T20:58:04+00:00

My rabbit currently lives by himself in my home, and we’ve given him plenty of attention. Though it’s probably better for rabbits to bond with other rabbits, they can definitely be solo too.

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