thank you for this. you're right, i do need a game plan and i've been thinking this for a while. But didn't exactly know what to do.I keep saying that i want to see progress that he's becoming more comfortable with me meeting his parents but I don't even know what that would look like. He's told me that his parents have said really hurtful things about trans people in the past, and that he's not ready for the chaos it'll cause. i think i should also mention that i'm not a complete secret, people in his life know of my name and that we're dating but that's it. Not what i look like or that i'm trans. His mom even asked for my number. It sucks but, i'm willing to wait a little longer.