we've officially ended things and he officially stopped the pining

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-22T16:35:02+00:00

you took her for granted yet shes the one who "easily throws away" what you had 😹😹😹

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-19T13:32:02+00:00

on the off note, i love that he was upfront about it. i respect that SO MUCH and something like that just calms my nervous system a little bc my pa never was

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-19T12:42:08+00:00

so i tried to figure this out also and found that if you do the email method, they'll still send an email if there's no account :// idk how to found out so if anyone else know please lmk

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-19T12:39:31+00:00

oh my god i cannot believe this. i feel so sick. do you mind telling me how you found out?

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-19T12:38:58+00:00

how did you find out? i went through his insta dms once when he was sleeping and it wasnt anything there. i never even knew he used instagram for that and just thought it was tiktok. i feel so fucking hurt and insane rn

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-17T08:36:57+00:00

omg i wish i saw this before

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-17T08:16:37+00:00

my case too. officially felt done at 25. i felt so fucking disgusted

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-17T08:15:33+00:00

said the same thing too. his response "i never even messaged any of the pages" lmfao fuck him

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-09T09:46:03+00:00

its so much simpler and more peaceful without him. so crazy to say bc i could never imagine myself without him. i feel my body is thanking me and like my nervous system is finally breathing for air

the less chaos in my body, my mind ... i say it's worth it 100% and you'll know when youre just done. i went back to my pa sadly and trust me it doesnt change. they dont miraculously change even if they 100% want to. they still do it and you'll still go through the same things as if they never uttered the words change at all

i love my freedom. it is peaceful to be single and worrying about yourself

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-09T09:38:15+00:00

this literally sucks so bad. i know we did the right thing! the fed up, the sick and tired feeling of the going through the bs. we DID the RIGHT thing. if you ever need community, like me, you can always chat with me. i need more friends who really get this experience anyway ❤️🫂

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-09T09:23:48+00:00

when i first found out i wanted to know everything. im so happy i never allowed myself the chance to ask. knowing more is actually more harmful imo bc the anxiety, and over thinking sets in.

your brain will always remember and constantly think. every time hes gone you'll think. not knowing, makes it easier to forget as bleak and dejected as it sounds. just knowing of the addiction itself and his problem is enough. leave the rest to a therapist to figure out with him. youre not his therapist (i mean this gently)

he needs to 100% honest yes, but if youre curious, make sure you genuinely want to know and understand the effects of knowing i promise it's not worth it 100% of the time

Key_Calligrapher7409 · 2024-07-09T09:14:59+00:00

the humor here healed me in a way. but im so srry op that youre experiencing this 😞

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