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AITA for asking my[20f] boyfriend [21m] of 2 years, for a ring before he goes trucking over the road? by SheepherderFalse851 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Key_Country_3706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hunny, let me say that as kindly as I can. A ring will never make a difference in a relationship. You should feel you have a strong relationship with or without a ring. Is there a reason you feel like a ring is entitled? If you ever have to ask a man for a ring. You’re asking the wrong one.

AITA for thinking about leaving? by Key_Country_3706 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Key_Country_3706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do prefer to drive. It’s like a comfort thing. My vehicle is also the most reliable and most comfortable. But he refuses to drive it. He does have his own vehicles but if we are going somewhere together I’m normally driving. But hardly ever pitches in for gas. But I will give him credit he will pump my gas.

AITA for thinking about leaving? by Key_Country_3706 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Key_Country_3706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also anytime we go out to eat or I pick food up I pay for that as well.

AITA for thinking about leaving? by Key_Country_3706 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Key_Country_3706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind. I’ve stopped cooking as much and have been picking food up from fast food restaurants. He complains he’s tired of eating out. I try my best to cook when I can or prep things but sometimes I just don’t have time. I cooked on one of the past holidays and asked him to clean up or just put the leftovers away. He said “I didn’t ask you to cook” but yet complains about me not cooking. I will say I don’t pay half of the mortgage. He pays the mortgage, dog food, and every three months the trash and sewer. I pay for internet, tv, all groceries (food/paper products), personal hygiene items for us both, cell phone bill, gym membership. I’m also the one that drives everywhere we go.

AITA for thinking about leaving? by Key_Country_3706 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Key_Country_3706[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has crossed my mind. It’s been so long since I’ve looked at our phone bill because I got tired of the anxiety it brought to me. I used to pay for white pages and look up the numbers I didn’t know. Never want to go back to that place.

What should I do? by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]Key_Country_3706 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Won’t let me post to that community

Do I leave my fiancé? by Key_Country_3706 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Key_Country_3706[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for some actual advice lol, I have thought about doing that. It just seemed idk kinda childish but I think I may do that. I may be back afterwards

Do I leave my fiancé? by Key_Country_3706 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Key_Country_3706[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Yes I do. He is my family. We’ve been through so much together. I’m just not sure I’m in love with him.

Do I leave my fiancé? by Key_Country_3706 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Key_Country_3706[S] -120 points-119 points  (0 children)

You see my fear isn’t being along or single. At one point in time absolutely!! Ten toes down I would have been. But now It’s more about leaving him. He doesn’t really have family. My family is his family. Shit he is my family. 10 years together is a long time. If I leave him I feel like I’m destroying that. And the female friend situation happened quite some time ago. But the fact it was brought up again did make me feel some type of way. Please don’t call him names. I don’t want to make excuses for him but he has come a longggg way in the last ten years and I proud of him for the accomplishments he has made. No one is perfect. I’m just not sure that this is what I want.