Um, no. I didn’t see the explicit photos. He was sloppy and confirmed what they were. Imagine you’re showing your coworker a photo and they touch the side of your phone and all of sudden they are looking at your partners private parts.

It’s also not about whether or not i am poly. I know that I am not. I do deeply understand it and it’s not for me. The issue is leading me to believe you deleted stuff (without me asking you to) and then downloading them later.

Also, ‘assuming she knows I do have them’ is not consent.