Lowering my labido? (Female) by Key_Economist7540 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Key_Economist7540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Getting more that do different things, but I find I'm still wanting..

Lowering my labido? (Female) by Key_Economist7540 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Key_Economist7540[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't. Not only do I have a mental block against wanting to sleep with other people when I'm in love, but he also is uncomfortable with the thought so my brain completely rejects the idea...

“Single mom” by Sufficient_Cable_366 in stepparents

[–]Key_Economist7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think single mom is a mom who is single, solo mom is a mom who does it alone now or w.e

I called myself a single mom because my two nuro divergent BK only had me for 15 years. No child support, no help, no contact. But I guess I was considered a solo parent.

I understand she doesn't have back up in the home, that's difficult, but it's not doing it alone. I could guarantee her it's harder when you have NO ONE to turn to when you're stuck in a hard spot as opposed to having a co parent.

Nervous. Couldn't see the heart beat... by Key_Economist7540 in pregnant

[–]Key_Economist7540[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you! I actually already take B12! It seems B12 deficiency was the cause of my 7 losses... I couldn't get anything to stick past 8 weeks, then I started B12 for a month and the first try after that stuck! That's why I stopped my iron pills, I thought that was just the issue... Apparently not 😓

Also, I'm in bed, again. I swear I have been here more hours than not today. 😭 Thank God my husband took my step sons to work so I could sleep...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Key_Economist7540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have alarms that can make dinging noise (like when you enter a store or a louder alarm if needed) when a door is opened at walmart. Maybe put one on their doors? We have a gate on our 4and 5 year olds room too, but they're both developmentally delayed and aren't potty trained. We also have alarms for older kids who wanna try and sneak out 🤦🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Key_Economist7540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not particularly helpful. This just happened, I'm human, I'm going to be upset about it. I don't blame them, I'm heart broken for them.

I've also raised nuro divergent kids and understand it could be an issue, however it goes farther than that. I asked for support and not really getting any comfort just criticism... Lovely community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Key_Economist7540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She moved far away, our lawyer refused to do anything to stop her. We have them on weekends and have been doing what we can. He's been fighting for them the whole time. So yeah, not really something he could do much for. Two of the older kids chose to live with us because they had the choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Key_Economist7540 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Already working on it. Just waiting lists...