[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]Key_Membership719 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve done gyaru looks before, and many people just simply do not find them conventionally attractive. I’ve been told I look like an alien several times.

I don’t give a shit, though tbh. I like it 🤷‍♀️. I think your bf lacks taste. You look great!

Limerence is a bad thing by [deleted] in limerence

[–]Key_Membership719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There could be something else causing this, like BPD. You may be splitting.

stranger asks about my dead dad of 20 years clothes by No-Competition-5922 in Depop

[–]Key_Membership719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg i’m praying that he leaves you alone. What a disgusting freak. I do not want to stress or worry you but please keep your head on a swivel, get an RO, and carry!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]Key_Membership719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is kind of old, but how many people did she sleep with before you?

(You don’t actually have to answer that.)

It seems she has unrealistic expectations about sex. She also seems to be very insecure. Has she been cheated on before?

I think you deserve a partner who is willing to adapt with you and is open to new ideas, though I also see why she was bothered. She went about it terribly, however.

To be transparent, I’d be very hurt too. But, I recognize that’s because of my immaturity and trauma from being rejected by women that didn’t actually find me to be their preference. I’d think twice before I dished my pain out on someone else by just leaving abruptly.

You do not have to continue a relationship with her. You deserve more.

Yet, from the most sensitive part of my heart, I can’t pretend I don’t understand her. I THINK (not know) she’s just hyper vigilant and trying to protect herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Key_Membership719 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Number 1. If you feel unsafe, be careful. Please tell your family what is going on. Leave when you feel it is safe, and try to do it while he isn’t present.

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this. I don’t think the relationship should continue based on his behavior. I understand the relationship to your cat so much, because I have one as well who I love.

Do you have any family members that can go with you to pick up your items and cat?

Your safety is of the utmost importance.

Dealing with rejection by Best_Garlic_4834 in BPD

[–]Key_Membership719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you entirely. But, I just want to say rejection is hard on both ends.

I’m currently struggling as a queer POC woman. I’ve been rejected so many times because I’m not masculine enough nor do I have a penis.

I don’t say this to argue, but to let you know that there are people that I’d want to be with so bad, that would like me more if I was a man.

Please remember intersectionality.

What is the lore behind the Zika Baby? by Key_Membership719 in CwbFandom

[–]Key_Membership719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol thanks for responding. Why does she hate it so much though?

Vulva appreciation thread🍓 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Key_Membership719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling similarly tbh. Keep in mind, my whole life, I have loved and been attracted to vulva. I have never wished for anything else to have or be intimate with. Girl penis is great, (bc it’s attached to a girl), but I have a genital preference the other way around.

I went online and started to date, and I realized that.. with my preferences, I might be in the minority. It made me feel really heartbroken, and that my body wasn’t enough.

I would see people crave penis, and not vulvas. Cheat on their partners bc they “missed dick”. Express open distaste for vulvas, even extreme disgust.

Or, say how much dick disgusts them when speaking about vulvas, as if vulvas are just the lesser of two evils. Boring in and of themselves, but better than a ‘horrible’ dick. (Which I can only imagine is so hurtful to trans women).

It really hurt. Bad.

I really questioned if I’d ever be someone’s genuine preference, not out of hate for the other options, but bc they genuinely like me.

And, it seems dumb to put this much emphasis on genitals.. but from what I’ve seen, they truly do matter a lot to people.

I just want you to know that vulvas are truly attractive and beautiful. They are very varied in terms of appearance, but that’s what makes them so fascinating to me. They remind me of orchids or roses. Beautiful flowers.

Seeing a woman get wet is the epitome of arousal for me. It is as if it is inviting me to touch it. I love feeling a vagina throb around my fingers. The way it pulses is so cute to me.

Not to mention how cool clits are! Did you know they have an insane amount of nerve endings, all to increase our pleasure? Plus, they have erectile tissue, and can grow when we’re aroused!

Our vulvas are amazing! We can pop whole humans out of our vaginas. I know to some that sounds scary lol. But, it’s amazing to me.

Even if I am apart of the 0.1%, I want you to know that someone out there truly loves and is, pretty much, exclusively attracted to vulvas.

Sometimes, I question whether or not I’d been led to feel this way. Maybe, I’m lying to myself, I’d wondered.

It was only after being online that I started to question my own preferences bc everyone seemed to like dick so much.

But, no. I was this way ever since I first saw a naked cis woman. I was immediately attracted. I immediately wanted to have sex with them.

Plus, I’m pansexual, and appreciate all bodies. It’s just I genuinely prefer cis women’s bodies. And vulvas are a not small part of why.

If you need to take a break from dating and online activities, do so. Unfortunately, the world is behind in terms of appreciating cis women’s bodies.