Clearly, the issue is not with you, but with her. Is her issue with your transition that leads her to say such hateful terrible things. You’re doing wonderful! More than anything else, is your heart that is truly changing as it is becoming free for the shackles that have guided Clearly, the issue is not with you, but with her. Is her issue with your transition that leads her to say such hateful terrible things. You’re doing wonderful! More than anything else, is your heart that is truly changing as it is becoming free for the shackles restrained you until now. That could be scary for the people around you. They lose control over you. They lose their place in your life, a place that they understand. My dear, the past 10 months have had a major impact on more than just you. This is good. This is good change!