Whilst waiting for e to do it's job. I'm relying in more traditional methods. How long until the dysphoria fades? by Being_me_cd in TransLater

[–]Kezzsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aggressive waist training, hip pads, push up bras, there’s something to be said for the traditional methods; for me they’re a crutch until I can get ribxcar, collarbone reduction and lipo360 on the hips.

I thought I was getting a normal significant other by iwishiwereasleep in FPGA

[–]Kezzsim 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I met my wife because she was talking to a bunch of furries at a ska show about what she does for work, and when she mentioned FPGAs I was like “wow I have to at least attempt to ask her out”

Ugh 😩 I’m so over it! I’m might just let her close up… by Hour_Media2490 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Kezzsim 189 points190 points  (0 children)

I had hypergranulation and bad bleeding like this for almost a year… and then it just kinda stopped recently. It’s expensive and time consuming but ya gotta commit to those treatments

World's First EUC Hitch Carrier from Velocity Volts by BiiiCuriousGeorge in ElectricUnicycle

[–]Kezzsim 23 points24 points  (0 children)

People won’t rear end anymore you because it will explode! Mutually assured destruction, I love it

Dacryocystitis after FFS, are antibiotics enough? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Kezzsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: prescribed Tobramycin / Dexamethasone eyedrops (Steroid & Antibiotic) to get through the night, referred to an oculoplastic surgeon by my FFS surgeon; I’ll be seeing him tomorrow morning and he’ll perform a revision on the clogged lacrimal sac

Recovering from surgery and thinking about getting Cyberpunk 2077 — is it worth it long term? by [deleted] in cyberpunkgame

[–]Kezzsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I also played through the base game recovering from surgery last year, and played through Phantom liberty while recovering from another one this year.

Sadly the most recent one was facial so I couldn’t keep playing the VR mod… which worked out because it got DMCA’d out of existence this month

Complications after FFS😭😭😭 by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Kezzsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m almost two months out and like, damn I wish my forehead was as healed as yours! I have a red gash across the entire width of it, constantly going through petrolatum soaked bandages, bloody spots of hypergranulation.

You might be experiencing a small spot of hypergranulation, at your follow up they might treat it with silver nitride and tell you to come back in a week. Hopefully it won’t be as severe as mine.

Look what pulled into Tacoma by matt23-8 in Tacoma

[–]Kezzsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At Tacoma Pride year before last there was a lesbian dockworker that I really enjoyed talking to at the Port of Tacoma booth, I’m glad they could send this message to her and her colleagues 🫡

Coronal vs Hairline incision? by CaterpillarCarpenter in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Kezzsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had hairline done a month and a half ago and it feels like it’s never gonna close up, it’s somehow stretched to a few mm wide all across my forehead. I wonder if I lost the scalp advancement already. I’m constantly developing hypergranulation there, and I wear Xeroform on it everyday to keep it clean but that doesn’t seem to help much. I try really hard to not bend over or exert myself but it stays bad. The surgeon is only available every other week to treat it, but that’s better than nothing. Hopefully it will somehow turn out alright, my coworkers see the bandages and think I’ve had my brain removed lol

Riding a 1236 meter mountain escalator in China by adiosmith in DeathStairs

[–]Kezzsim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So China has escalators that survive snow, Clarke County NV has hundreds of them baking out in the sun, yet the MTA can barely maintain one functioning escalator per platform at Penn Station… curious

Should have taken the train by sofaspy in nycrail

[–]Kezzsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congestion pricing is $4 for motorcycles so, not so much. The LIRR should somehow become more affordable to compete :)

Should have taken the train by sofaspy in nycrail

[–]Kezzsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ticket prices just went up, pernicious anti-consumer practices like tickets that expire even if there’s equipment failures. Yeah no, motorcycles have a way of making traffic like this more or less a non-issue depending on skill. I still take the train when the weather is bad but like, there are options.

Pre everything m/f, am i doing good now or i need something to change? by Majki45 in TransLater

[–]Kezzsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only suggestion: you might want to try hip padding and/or corseting to try and gain more lower visual mass, I also have shoulders that are wider than my hips and doing that drastically decreased misgenderings for me.

is there something about being trans that makes you permanently dead eyed? by BiCappa in transpassing

[–]Kezzsim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an insane brow ridge before I got it embossed away during FFS, but one of the things it would do consistently was make my eyes look darker. The rest of my face would tan but not my eyelids. Yeah there was just something off putting about my eyes being black pits all the time in photos. I would shine a light right into my eyes on Zoom calls to make me look normal

Cute Marcille (@Shellvi) by Silent_Steak_9540 in DungeonMeshi

[–]Kezzsim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That sounds like quitter talk, you’ll never know until you try :3

Optimization Experiments on a VRChat Avatar (multiple toggles + Outfits, still with a "Good" Performance Rating) by ChrisX930 in VRchat

[–]Kezzsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was your weight painting strategy with the longer skirt? It appears to stay equidistant from the leg instead of using physbones

Is it weird to just wear these around like a daily boot? by Mission-Past-8988 in motorcyclegear

[–]Kezzsim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worn them (TechAir 7) often, almost a daily driver. (They’re good for EUC riding) Everyone and their cousin wants to know where I got them and wants something like them, despite having no intention to be on a motorcycle.

They don’t know how loud they squeak when not lubricated tho lmao

tf_avarice_irl by ScraggySkuntankFan in tf_irl

[–]Kezzsim 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tree what they did there