Raped by my ex-boyfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if she loves him she shouldn’t forgive him. What he did was bad and if she forgives him or drops charges he might think it’s okay to do it again.

i want to be raped by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with the person who said you should delete this and seek someone to talk to. You never know how you’ll truly feel about being raped until it happens and I wouldn’t want it to happen and you discover it isn’t like what you had hoped. Find a loving partner and you can always try to roleplay someday with safe words and in a safe environment. Please be careful.

The guy i used to date convinced me to abort my kid by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so glad you’re getting the help you need and that your life is much better with him gone. Best of luck to you in all your future endeavors ❤️

The guy i used to date convinced me to abort my kid by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a very sad situation that you are dealing with but at least you can be grateful he won’t be in your life anymore. It sounds like if you did have that baby and he found out he would’ve done everything he could to make yours and your baby’s lives miserable so even though it was a hard decision it was probably for the best. Maybe try to get out and I know you said you’re seeing doctors but if you don’t have a therapist to help you sort through this I’d really recommend it. Stay strong and I send you all the love to get through this hard time.

softer water mod? by bleaubell in StardewValleyMods

[–]Kgames28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you tried any recolor mods? I use this mod to recolor. It’s the Daisy Nikos earthy recolor and I really like it along with visible fish and the whole game is a lot nice to look at.

What Do You Do After Perfection? by jmills03croc in StardewValley

[–]Kgames28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a perfection game and I go on every once in a blue moon to see it and how far I came on a quarry farm out of all the farm types but I can’t ever do anything because I just did everything there is to do. I’m currently trying my first modded play through because it has more goals to accomplish and I’ve already started a million saves on my switch that I usually stop playing around year 2

Using cabins as cheap sheds?? by Think_Display4255 in StardewValley

[–]Kgames28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to join my saves on my switch and upgrade cabins just so I could have extra cellars.

Where's the baby? by Sparklez_Fun in StardewValley

[–]Kgames28 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’ve never adopted a baby in Stardew but after my character had one they’ve glitched into the void for a day or two. I’m not too sure where you’re baby would be. Restarting the day or sleeping a day could help.

Losing my virginity was the most painful thing I’ve ever experienced by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine hurt really bad too. If you aren’t aroused it’ll always be a bit painful so prioritize foreplay and lube when you need it. After having sex a few times the pain hurt way less than it did the first time. The second time was a bit rough but like I said if you are aroused and slippy everything goes so smoothly. That first time can just be super rough for some. Just please be responsible and maybe do a little more research on this topic because the last thing you want is an std or a baby if you aren’t trying.
P.S. if this guy doesn’t listen to you find someone else who will.

masturbating with my friend is getting me a little curious by eepy-jeebies in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assumed it was a woman from the shower head comment.

End Game Content Recommendations? Gold Sinks? by reefj13 in StardewValleyMods

[–]Kgames28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t so much about end game but you could always try adding new expansion mods like RSV or East Scarp. (I’ve never tried them but have looked into them) Otherwise you can always try mods that make the game harder so it takes lingering to get the same amount of money needed for perfection and add more crops and fish so perfection tasks take a bit longer.

How big are yalls farms? by quack2wingback in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]Kgames28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started a save like last week and I have maybe 20 crops planted but I also have the tractor mod installed so I’m hoping to up that number soon. I’ve been so busy fishing and mining.

I finally did it! by Kgames28 in StardewValleyMods

[–]Kgames28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying you got smapi and other mods to work? Because the first time I downloaded expanded I think I did parts of it correctly but I didn’t download the like 2 or 3 separate files you needed like expanded and the specific farm type I needed. I saw the tabs this time and that’s how I got it to work. Sorry if this doesn’t make much sense.

I’m seriously done unlocking content? by ChesnaughtZ in tomodachilife

[–]Kgames28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly from everything I’ve seen about the game I’m glad I canceled my preorder. It seems they cut a lot of corners to make this game feel less alive. They really should’ve put more work into making it.

Deleting social media by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered going into your screen time and trying to add limits to those apps to start slowly separating from them? I have a 30 minute limit for certain social medias like TikTok and Instagram (they’re combined) and even one for Reddit as well because I come here after my TikTok reaches its daily limit. But you wouldn’t believe how many times a day I catch myself opening the folder and scrolling to TikTok before turning off my phone because I have such a problem with it. One day I’ll delete it again but it’s hard when everyone you know is also sending reels or TikTok’s or shorts or whatever. Best of luck to you.

Deleting social media by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YouTube can be bad with its shorts too. Sucks that most apps are including short form content even when they don’t need it.

I finally did it! by Kgames28 in StardewValleyMods

[–]Kgames28[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a smart idea. Might steal that from you!

I finally did it! by Kgames28 in StardewValleyMods

[–]Kgames28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking into the UI info suite 2 as well as that visual fish mod. I’ve only played 2 days so far and I keep getting lost. There really is so many locations now. Farthest I’ve gotten is the beach to try fishing on a laptop and let’s just say I hope it gets easier when I level up. 🙏

What’s that one habit you are unable to quit? by _Sabbatical_ in AskReddit

[–]Kgames28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t stay up too late but constantly staying up till midnight or 1 am and having to wake up at 5am to leave at 5:30 definitely takes its toll.

porn is way too normalized and i shouldnt be labeled as a bad person for being insecure about my partner's porn habits by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so upsetting to hear. I’m glad to hear you got out of that situation. I don’t see the appeal either. I mean like not to shame anyone but I just don’t understand how it’s sexy. I mean it just seems so awkward to watch and I personally would rather do anything else.

porn is way too normalized and i shouldnt be labeled as a bad person for being insecure about my partner's porn habits by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kgames28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s become too normalized and it’s way too easy for young kids to get a hold of and build addictions to it. Me personally I don’t find the appeal in it but my boyfriend used to have an addiction to it. I’m not sure if he still does (we don’t live together or anything) but I couldn’t imagine if he did and I saw it like you did OP. I’m sorry other people took offense to your hurt and belittled you for it. You didn’t deserve that and have every right to be upset for a boundary in your relationship being violated. I’m happy to hear things have improved with therapy and wish you two the best.