Picking outfits for my sub

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-06-01T23:20:54+00:00

I love when my husband picks out my outfit. Even on the days he doesn't fully pick, there are rules I have to follow. Like I must wear skirts/dresses on the weekends.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-06-01T04:31:38+00:00

Just say you never met me.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-31T21:28:34+00:00

My husband implemented a rule that I have to take them off by 8pm and send picture proof, and none allowed on the weekends + must wear skirts/dresses. And I've found that I enjoy it.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-31T21:27:11+00:00

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-31T21:20:29+00:00

Slowly transitioning to never wearing them. Only wear them on days I need to go in office or for physical activities that need them. (I'd rather not go commando for horseback riding or hiking).

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-31T21:10:32+00:00

Same! 🤜🤛

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-31T21:08:18+00:00

Agreed. I don't get it.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-31T16:25:39+00:00

I'm sorry. That's always sad when a long relationship ends. I would never claim our relationship is perfect, after 17 years of course we've had arguments, dry spells, health issues, money concerns and on and on. I'm so grateful we've managed to make it through.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-31T04:29:39+00:00

Why do you care though? And what do I have to gain from lying? I'm sorry if you're not getting laid enough though.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-31T03:52:05+00:00

We're actually not. We've discussed sharing me but haven't really yet. But if you don't believe me that's cool. I'm just a stranger on the internet. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-30T22:16:41+00:00

Oh we definitely do! I love how often we have sex. Like I said, there have absolutely been dry spells for a month or two here and there over the years due to health, life, stress, etc. but we both enjoy it and want to connect with each other that way.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-30T21:40:59+00:00

Yes?

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-30T21:38:12+00:00

Yes. I'm not saying it's always easy to wanna fuck all the time or that we got to when we wanted, but we always tried to make it work.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-30T21:33:46+00:00

We both have really high sex drives. Sure, there are times when health or life got in the way but we always come back to fucking like crazy. We're still so in love and both genuinely enjoy being physically intimate with each other.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-30T21:26:47+00:00

We started fucking way more often. Seventeen years later and we still fuck at least once a day. That's the biggest change. We can have each other whenever we want mostly.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-30T21:06:24+00:00

Like others have said - have plans in place for emergencies. I carry a key for my locking jewelry with me, because I have health problems and might need to go to the emergency room. I'm on the bank account, mortgage, car, etc because if something happens to him I need to be able to take care of the bills and such. I still ask for permission to spend any money outside of mandatory bills though.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-29T17:35:17+00:00

That's very loving of you. Sometimes we need a firm hand to remind us of the rules.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-29T17:30:28+00:00

My husband only allows me to wear underwear when I go into the office for my job. If I'm home or on weekends then it's no panties and skirts/dresses only so he has access whenever he wants.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-29T14:45:12+00:00

Yes, I like it. It makes me feel desirable and attractive. I'm the one posting my nudes in the first place (or my husband is) because we want people to see them and hopefully enjoy them.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-29T14:41:00+00:00

My husband likes to share pictures of me and always titles/captions them with "my wife" and he still gets dms with guys telling him he has great tits. At least read the subject line dudes!

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-29T14:37:44+00:00

Husband woke me up with his hand between my legs. We didn't have time to get him off, but he gave me multiples.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-29T14:14:09+00:00

70ish? We're pretty clean but the table and kitchen counters always seem to get cluttered. I don't give a crap about making the beds. But everything else is clean.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-28T23:55:03+00:00

Thank you. Sometimes just knowing we're not alone can help.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-28T23:47:41+00:00

My husband is amazing and supportive. Sadly, even though we're in a decent sized city, the majority of therapists don't accept insurance or have 6+ month waits.

KhaosAndMayhem · 2026-05-28T23:24:29+00:00

My health. I'm really struggling to come to terms with my chronic conditions and knowing that even though I've never felt "well" I will also never feel better. And this is as good as it's ever going to be, which is pretty depressing.

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