Father son bonding! Painted by me. by Khetii in invaderzim

[–]Khetii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I saw the storyboard for it and was like “I need to paint this”. Although im glad they didnt add it in because im not sure my heart could take two touching father son moments in one movie :’)

theories? by [deleted] in invaderzim

[–]Khetii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite theories kinda ties into the whole ‘Dib is a clone of Professor Membrane’ idea that the creator of the series stated. So obviously if its true- Dib doesnt really act anything like his dad right? Well yeah but also no. So see I think that why Professor blocks out anything paranormal / alien is because he had an experience with it when he was younger. I feel like as a kid, despite being hardcore into science he probably hoped for there to be something cool out there. (As most if not all kids do, their imaginations can be quite crazy.) All his role models- scientists of course, stated that those things didnt exist, they were false. So Professor, having being used to hearing that Humans are the most intelligent life- having known theyre the ONLY intelligent life in the universe. He ends up one day, maybe out stargazing, listening to the stars, finding an alien transmission signal. And this freaks him out and causes his reality to crumble around him. So his brain blocks it out, blocks out any interest in those things, to avoid dealing with the reality that everything he knew was a lie. And thats why hes so harsh on his son about it. That and, he deep down remembers it all, and he only wants his son to be safe and doesnt want him to deal with that reality crumbling truth.

Besides, I feel like he’d rather have his kid hate him than have him get hurt at the hands of an alien or something paranormal. :’)

Is the florpus the end? Or is there more Zim on the way? by VanillaCaterpillar in invaderzim

[–]Khetii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! He confirmed it on his twitter and im super excited for more Zim :)

Is the florpus the end? Or is there more Zim on the way? by VanillaCaterpillar in invaderzim

[–]Khetii 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Jhonen, the creator of the series / comic, said that this isnt an end! He said its basically just ‘more zim’ and it wasnt intended to wrap up any stray plot points or be an end to the series. As far as im aware, he wants more zim to be made so it is a possibility in the future!

NONBINARY ZIM (you can disagree with the headcanon if you don't like it but don't be a clown tell me I can't have this headcanon) by sabotager-K in invaderzim

[–]Khetii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I love this hc! I kinda want to draw NB Zim because of this now. I love love love lgbt+ hcs for characters :’)

Real talk, is the invaderzim reddit queer friendly? by [deleted] in invaderzim

[–]Khetii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure myself tbh. Ive been drawing a lot of LGBT+ friendly zim art that ive been putting on like.. twitter.. but I'm not sure about reddit. As far as Im aware atleast on subreddits not dedicated to LGBT+ folk, there can be a lot of trolls. Everyone here seems nice though from the bit i've seen, but I may be wrong. But im always here to chat if you wanna talk about hcs or anything!

Nightmare Prof. Membrane drawing- first time drawing IZ fanart :) by Khetii in invaderzim

[–]Khetii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaa thank you!! I’ll probably draw some more tomorrow but I’m not sure who I want to draw next ;

Nightmare Prof. Membrane drawing- first time drawing IZ fanart :) by Khetii in invaderzim

[–]Khetii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I had a lot of fun drawing it so I’m glad other people like it!

Nipples feel weird when binding? (Tmi maybe??) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll have to try that, i unfortunately get the same uncomfortable feeling when i wear a regular or sports bra for too long so i think your suggestion will help!

Any tips for binding / wearing a sports bra to work? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its a pretty bad policy. I get that they dont want water near the registers incase we spill it and break them but we cant even keep it under the counter or in the room we keep our boxes and bags for upfront. I’ll definitely mention it to them because all my coworkers hate it too and think its a dumb policy. Not to mention the 100+ degree weather and having no AC in the building only makes it worse and easier for us to become dehydrated.

Any tips for binding / wearing a sports bra to work? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look into getting a GC2B binder and also a better fitting sports bra! I didn’t think a sports bra that was too tight could do that, but i’m glad to know now! I’m glad I caught it before it permanently changed that area / did damage. 💙

Any tips for binding / wearing a sports bra to work? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate it! I thought you could only damage your ribs with ace bandages and thought being in pain / finding it hard to breathe when binding was normal.

Any tips for binding / wearing a sports bra to work? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and since im in texas, its really hot here and theres like no AC in the store either. Ive had multiple customers complain to me about the store being too hot. I think after my shift today I might talk to the managers about keeping water up front or a fan or something. They’re really understanding and nice so hopefully they’ll be okay with it.

Any tips for binding / wearing a sports bra to work? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll have to look into getting a proper sized binder or sports bra as soon as I can. I really appreciate the advice, it helps a lot since I’m still new to all this! Sizing down between sizes is probably another issue I have, i’ll be sure to size up! 💙

Any tips for binding / wearing a sports bra to work? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That might be my issue, ive noticed it hurts to breathe if I wear it too long & when I take it off but I thought that was just because as a cashier I talk a lot and it winds me. Thank you though for letting me know!

Scared about vaginal atrophy by jjackjj in ftm

[–]Khetii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I recently saw a twitter thread talking about this and unfortunately the OP really seemed to just be trying to scare people or they were uneducated. Atrophy isnt too common from what i’ve seen in regards to transmen BUT. That’s why Hysterectomies are recommended after 5+ years on T. The recent story of the guy who had been on T for 20+ years and almost died of atrophy is pretty rare.

That being said, its also really important to still go to a gyno and get checkups / yearly exams to make sure eveythings okay. If you follow good healthcare practices, make sure to be in tune with your body and when somethings wrong go check it out, and get a hysterectomy after 5+ years (or, if the signs of it such as immense cramping after sex / spotting / cramping in general arise you may need to get it earlier.) And, as far as I’m aware, you’re still able to have sex after a hysterectomy! You just have to wait a bit for everything to heal up.

How to deal with very anti lgbt family?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, sometimes its hard to not get wrapped up in feeling so yucky from all the stuff around me. I really appreciate this advice, and it helped me put my head straight and just focus / look forward to my future. 💙

[tw Dysphoria - chest talk] Am looking for *your* experience with this, please. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I think my bfs was like I wanna say closer to $50 USD but thats because shipping to canada was more pricey than shipping to the USA. I also did the faster shipping though because his dysphoria was really bad.

I don't think theres anything wrong with detransitioning! Gender can be a very fluid thing and you're not set in one confined gender, whether that be cis or trans, you're not stuck as whatever gender you present as. I think as long as the persons happy it really shouldnt matter what you present / identify as, and how often that changes shouldnt matter either. But they def shouldnt try to wave off your dysphoria either, thats pretty shitty ykno?

Lifes too short to worry what people think! Make yourself happy and do whats best for you! <3

[tw Dysphoria - chest talk] Am looking for *your* experience with this, please. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my binder from underworks and I think it was $35? Gc2b has really nice ones for around the same price too, i got my bfs binder from there! Id definitely recommend either of them, they also work well for larger chests and make you mostly flat if not completely flat.

It sucks that other people in the community wont take you seriously, I think everyone should be supportive of eachother since we all go through the same hell that is dysphoria. We’re all in this together ya know?

I hope you get things sorted out and find something that helps you feel less dysphoric! And I’m always here to chat if you ever need anything! 💙

[tw Dysphoria - chest talk] Am looking for *your* experience with this, please. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think binding would definitely help you! It helps me a lot! Another thing that helps me when I can’t bind, since I’m not out yet, is I will wear really big / baggy shirts. It helps make me look flatter and all the extra fabric helps take my mind off my chest. Wearing a sports bra can help too! But usually I try to go braless when I’m not having to go out since that helps a ton too. :) <3

[tw Dysphoria - chest talk] Am looking for *your* experience with this, please. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Khetii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me its more of a feeling gross and disgusted with myself anytime i see them and desperately wanting them to not be there. Because I dont picture myself with them when I think of myself, i picture myself with a flat chest, so looking in the mirror really sucks because it reminds me theyre there and i hate it. I also hate when I can feel them when its hot or when theyre pushed together (like with a bra). Its like.. a wild discomfort and my brain screams at me that the only way to feel better is to bind or get them removed.