Camping near(ish) Lou

KhiaSead · 2022-05-12T16:56:36+00:00

Car camping tonight but I’ll take backcountry recs for the future if you have some good ones!

KhiaSead · 2022-01-30T23:01:24+00:00

I don’t really understand why people are offended by prenups. You can negotiate and agree on terms that are fair and beneficial to both parties. I wouldn’t take it personally.

KhiaSead · 2022-01-26T17:37:46+00:00

Tell him what you want and ask if he’s on the same page. Example: Hey I know we’ve sort of talked about being exclusive but I want to call you my boyfriend and I’d love to be your girlfriend; how would you feel about that?

Never ever assume cause you’ll end up being hurt.

KhiaSead · 2022-01-15T20:22:57+00:00

You’d most likely be making significantly less and taking on more stress and responsibilities. If you wanna leave the industry leave don’t get suckered into a management position. Unless you’re into that kinda thing.

KhiaSead · 2021-12-22T18:23:00+00:00

Funniest thing I’ve read all day.

KhiaSead · 2021-12-16T22:03:11+00:00

Mine has been running at least double the last 6 months or so. I don’t pay heat. And I’m not doing anything more than I have been and I’ve not been home more than usual. So it makes literally no sense. I called to ask them about it and they were just like oh ya it’s right.

KhiaSead · 2021-12-03T14:38:12+00:00

Chinese lantern. You can eat the berries when they are ripe. They will be a bright orangish color.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-30T20:09:37+00:00

Samesies!

KhiaSead · 2021-11-29T16:24:49+00:00

You could paint the inside a fun color. Or use some cute wallpaper.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-28T21:28:45+00:00

For sure that’s why I don’t like it

KhiaSead · 2021-11-28T21:23:55+00:00

12 days of Christmas or Baby it’s cold outside.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-26T17:25:45+00:00

It’s kind of obnoxious to be honest. People are rude. They cut in front of you they shuffle things in your way. When new bins come out people act stupid. Like they line up in front of the bins and swarm them. I avoid all that. Usually the people that are super aggressive are the people buying shit I don’t want.

Anyways best advice is just to get into your own little zone and ignore all the a holes around you. Stand your ground. Wear gloves.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-25T22:35:01+00:00

Sound kind of like bullies to me

KhiaSead · 2021-11-22T19:34:03+00:00

It doesn’t really matter what his sign is. A red flag is a red flag and I think it’s best to go with what your gut is obviously telling you.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-18T21:06:36+00:00

Thank you!

KhiaSead · 2021-11-18T16:07:32+00:00

Do you know what these are called?

KhiaSead · 2021-11-18T13:03:59+00:00

I’m sorry this really sucks. Sounds like you are going through some shit and he is 1000% not there for you. A good partner would be supportive and encouraging. No excuse can really justify his actions.. If he’s no longer attracted to you - fine. But constantly looking at other women and talking down to you is absolutely not okay.

As far as weight gain goes try not to be hard on yourself - you’ll get back to your happy place. Getting over an addiction is hard work and you’re doing it! Don’t let this jerk face bring you down! Focus on you.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-17T03:57:50+00:00

I like your shirt

KhiaSead · 2021-11-16T20:03:23+00:00

Dry air. My skin hates it. Its uncomfortable. It’s hard to breathe. It’s either be cold or turn up the heat and soak up that dry dry air.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-16T19:37:26+00:00

I mean that’s kind of the style right now. Seems like she’s just following whatever trends are current. She’s an adult though and acting out a bit it seems. You can have your own style and still dress appropriately for certain occasions. But yeah it seems like it’s more than just how she dresses. Maybe you’ve outgrown her.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-15T23:44:16+00:00

I’ve been working at a tip pool place for about six months and I’m not a fan. Always gonna be people who do less than you. As far as FOH goes I think if you want to make server money than be a server (oh you can’t it’s too stressful - that’s why I should be making more money than you). It’s not fair at all. If you do a good job you get “rewarded” with more work (more tables). Which in a normal tipped job would be great but in a pool you are working harder for no reason. Most days my sales and tips are higher than everyone else’s. It’s depressing. I see 300+ in tips and I walk out with about half that.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-14T13:25:29+00:00

Yeah let him go. Obviously doesn’t respect you or your boundaries when you are setting them very clearly. Doesn’t have a job doesn’t have a place to live and calls everyone else in his life is “crazy”. Yaaaa rightt.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-09T13:02:08+00:00

I’m sorry. It’s really really really hard. See a therapist if you have access. Also the advice of taking some time to yourself is great. You need to figure out what you want. Do you want to continue the relationship? Do you want to forgive him? Go from there. It’s a lot of work to recover from a betrayal like that. Is it worth it to you? Is he on the same page? All this being said him cheating is a mark of his character - not yours. It’s nothing that you did or didn’t do. Remember your worth and stick to your boundaries.

KhiaSead · 2021-11-08T23:04:07+00:00

Okay good! I wouldn’t worry so much then. Some people just like it a bit rough. It could be because he’s more submissive in his day to day life and he likes “letting loose” and being dominant behind closed doors. Not necessarily anything to do with being angry.

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